

A surprisingly effective way to persuade (almost) anyone
66 snips Jun 30, 2025
Will Storr, a bestselling author and storytelling expert, delves into the psychology of persuasion. He reveals how mimicry can ease tensions, as showcased by Mandela's strategic communication during apartheid's end. Storr discusses the surprising influence of status over monetary incentives, particularly in areas like hospital hand hygiene compliance. He highlights how social media capitalizes on our desire for status, turning interactions into competitive dynamics. Listeners will find fresh insights into building connections and fostering effective communication.
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Mandela's Mimicry Defused Uprising
- Nelson Mandela used mimicry by greeting General Fuljon in his own language, Afrikaans, and matching his warm demeanor.
- This defused a potential violent uprising and prevented civil war during South Africa's transition from apartheid.
Mimicry Signals Similarity
- Humans constantly seek cooperation with others who share similar views and behaviors.
- Mimicry signals similarity and helps bond relationships by attracting like-minded individuals.
Dress to Persuade
- Demonstrators were more likely to sign petitions when approached by individuals dressed like them.
- Similarity in appearance increases persuasion and compliance.