

462: The Perfectionism Webinar, Part 1 of 2
Aug 18, 2025
In a thought-provoking discussion, Dr. Jill Levitt, a leading figure in cognitive behavioral therapy, joins to tackle the challenging topic of perfectionism. She delves into how perfectionism fuels feelings of anxiety and inadequacy, and highlights the emotional pain that often accompanies those beliefs. Listeners learn about Positive Reframing and Cost-Benefit Analysis, powerful tools to combat perfectionistic thought patterns. The conversation also emphasizes the balance between striving for excellence and the need for self-acceptance.
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Self-Defeating Beliefs Are Value Equations
- Self-defeating beliefs act like value equations that say you need X to feel worthwhile.
- Perfectionism, achievement or approval addiction substitute for core self-worth and drive distress.
Distortions Spring From Background Beliefs
- Distorted automatic thoughts arise only when upset and stem from background self-defeating beliefs.
- Those thoughts feel as true as physical facts but are loaded with cognitive distortions.
Assess Resistance By Naming The Upside
- Assess resistance by identifying how symptoms reflect positive values and benefits.
- Use that list to reduce ambivalence before attempting cognitive change techniques.