#688 - Steven Bartlett - 17 Raw Lessons About Human Nature

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Oct 2, 2023

Steven Bartlett, Founder of Social Chain and a dynamic entrepreneur, shares invaluable insights on human nature. He explores the delicate balance between achieving goals and maintaining inner peace, along with how to turn self-criticism into a strength. Steven discusses the importance of authenticity in the face of public scrutiny and shares his equation for unbreakable discipline. He also reflects on the loneliness that can accompany success and the vital role of connection in personal growth.

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Framing Matters

The frame of how something is presented matters more than the actual content.
Consider Apple stores' spaciousness, justifying high prices by framing products as high-value.

INSIGHT

Belief Formation

Beliefs are based on accepted evidence, not chosen consciously.
To change beliefs, seek new experiences that contradict existing evidence, not just affirmations.

ANECDOTE

Labeling Theory

Studies show that labeling children as stutterers can lead to lifelong stuttering.
This demonstrates labeling theory and stereotype threat, where imposed labels become reality.

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