Worklife with Adam Grant Overcoming toxic positivity with Susan David
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Jan 23, 2024 In this discussion, Susan David, a Harvard Medical School psychologist and emotional agility expert, dives into the pitfalls of toxic positivity. She reveals that it’s crucial to acknowledge, rather than suppress, our emotions for genuine well-being. The conversation touches on how embracing difficult feelings can lead to personal growth. David also explains the significance of guilt as an emotional signal and the importance of navigating compassion fatigue. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to reclaim their emotional agency and view feelings as valuable insights.
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Susan David's Story of Grief and Toxic Positivity
- Susan David's father died when she was 15, and her class avoided mentioning fathers.
- She suppressed her grief, receiving praise for staying positive, but privately struggled with bulimia.
Toxic Positivity as Avoidance
- Toxic positivity, or the "tyranny of positivity," is an avoidant coping strategy.
- It prioritizes the comfort of others over the grieving person's reality.
Optimism vs. Forced Positivity
- While attitudes matter, forced positivity differs from optimism.
- True optimism acknowledges reality while believing in a better future and working towards it.
