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Worklife with Adam Grant

Overcoming toxic positivity with Susan David

Jan 23, 2024
Harvard psychologist Susan David joins Adam Grant to discuss emotional agility and the risks of suppressing unwanted emotions. They explore the impact of teaching emotional skills in schools, the importance of adopting a non-pessimistic perspective, and the value of negative emotions like guilt. They also discuss empathy, compassion, and avoiding burnout, as well as the concept of emotional agility and the role of interpersonal dynamics in unpleasant emotions.
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  • Suppressing or ignoring negative emotions can lead to a lack of wisdom and learning, as well as hinder meaningful conversations and understanding shared values.
  • Understanding guilt and its underlying message can help us navigate our emotions with greater wisdom and align our actions with our values.

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The Importance of Emotional Skills

Emotional skills have historically been denigrated as soft skills and pushed aside. This has led to a lack of emphasis on teaching emotional skills in schools. However, emotional skills are essential for navigating a changing world and adapting to different situations. Emotion suppression and brooding are two ineffective strategies for managing unpleasant emotions. Emotion suppression involves bottling emotions and viewing them as negative, while brooding involves being consumed by difficult emotions without effectively dealing with them. Both strategies can have negative long-term impacts on well-being and relationships.

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