Why you feel anxious socializing (and what to do about it) | Fallon Goodman
Jan 2, 2024
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Psychologist Fallon Goodman explores the root causes of social anxiety and provides practical tips to manage it. Mental health specialist Dr. Jessi Gold discusses social media's impact on social anxiety and the importance of creating a safe space for mental health. The podcast also delves into dispelling myths about social anxiety disorder, the difference between introversion and social anxiety, and the potential effects of social media on social anxiety. It concludes by emphasizing the need to open up about mental health and challenge the stigma surrounding it.
Social anxiety is rooted in the fear of being rejected and seeking approval from others, but it can develop into a disorder when intertwined with a negative self-view.
Social media and technology exacerbate social anxiety, introducing new standards and possibilities for scrutiny, reputation loss, and fear of making social blunders with long-lasting repercussions.
Deep dives
Understanding Social Anxiety
Social anxiety is rooted in the fear of being rejected, leading to hyper focus on how one appears to others. It is a natural response to protect oneself from rejection and seeks approval from others. However, when this fear becomes intertwined with a negative view of oneself, it can develop into social anxiety disorder. Social anxiety disorder affects millions worldwide, but it is often misunderstood and overlooked. Common myths include assuming individuals with social anxiety are happier alone or only fear public performances. In reality, people with social anxiety desire social connections and enjoyment but struggle in certain situations. The disorder can have significant impacts on daily life, hobbies, career choices, and relationships.
The Influence of Social Media and Technology
In today's hyper-connected world, social anxiety is compounded by social media and technology. While these tools provide avenues for social interactions, they also introduce new standards and possibilities for scrutiny, reputation loss, and rejection. The fear of making social blunders with long-lasting repercussions is ever-present. The prevalence of social media and technology has led to a decay of social connection, despite increased connectivity. Understanding and managing social anxiety in this digital age is crucial, as the world becomes more connected and technology continues to shape social relationships.
Supporting Individuals with Social Anxiety
Early detection is vital in addressing social anxiety, as more than half of those with the disorder develop symptoms before their 14th birthday. Simple screening questions can help identify social anxiety, allowing for timely intervention. Open conversations about mental health reduce stigma and help individuals recognize their experiences. Providing social support involves being empathetic, actively listening, and creating safe and gradual opportunities for social interactions. Creating flexible workplaces and social spaces that accommodate the needs of individuals with social anxiety can also foster a more supportive environment.
The Power of Open Dialogue and Personal Experience
Discussing mental health openly is essential to combat stigma and increase awareness. Hearing diverse voices and personal experiences helps people realize they are not alone in their struggles and encourages seeking help. Open dialogues also challenge harmful beliefs and myths surrounding mental health conditions. Healthcare professionals, in particular, need to openly address their own mental health journeys to normalize the use of medication and seeking help. By sharing personal stories, individuals can inspire others and let them know that it is okay to seek support.
In crowds, at meetings, get-togethers with friends, everyday interactions: social anxiety can show up as an unwelcome guest at any time. But why? Psychologist Fallon Goodman digs into the source of social anxiety, setting the record straight about this common condition with practical solutions to help you feel the most authentically "you" while out and about. After we revisit this talk, mental health specialist Dr. Jessi Gold joins Shoshana in a sweeping conversation on social media’s impact on social anxiety and how we can best support ourselves and others.