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Why you feel anxious socializing (and what to do about it) | Fallon Goodman

Jan 2, 2024
Psychologist Fallon Goodman explores the root causes of social anxiety and provides practical tips to manage it. Mental health specialist Dr. Jessi Gold discusses social media's impact on social anxiety and the importance of creating a safe space for mental health. The podcast also delves into dispelling myths about social anxiety disorder, the difference between introversion and social anxiety, and the potential effects of social media on social anxiety. It concludes by emphasizing the need to open up about mental health and challenge the stigma surrounding it.
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  • Social anxiety is rooted in the fear of being rejected and seeking approval from others, but it can develop into a disorder when intertwined with a negative self-view.
  • Social media and technology exacerbate social anxiety, introducing new standards and possibilities for scrutiny, reputation loss, and fear of making social blunders with long-lasting repercussions.

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Understanding Social Anxiety

Social anxiety is rooted in the fear of being rejected, leading to hyper focus on how one appears to others. It is a natural response to protect oneself from rejection and seeks approval from others. However, when this fear becomes intertwined with a negative view of oneself, it can develop into social anxiety disorder. Social anxiety disorder affects millions worldwide, but it is often misunderstood and overlooked. Common myths include assuming individuals with social anxiety are happier alone or only fear public performances. In reality, people with social anxiety desire social connections and enjoyment but struggle in certain situations. The disorder can have significant impacts on daily life, hobbies, career choices, and relationships.

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