How to Handle Disagreements in Business and Relationships with Justin Jones-Fosu

Nov 13, 2024

In this insightful discussion, Justin Jones-Fosu, founder of Work Meaningful and author of 'I Respectfully Disagree,' shares his expertise on navigating tough conversations. He emphasizes setting boundaries while avoiding barriers and offers strategies for shifting mindsets in polarizing situations. Justin reflects on lessons from his mother about embracing diversity and building empathy through understanding. He also introduces techniques to foster respectful disagreement and promote meaningful connections in both business and personal relationships.

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Intro

00:00 • 5min

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Navigating Disagreements with Respect

05:29 • 2min

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Bridging Cultures and Perspectives

07:04 • 14min

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Business Tools for Entrepreneurs: Banking and E-Commerce Solutions

20:41 • 3min

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Navigating Assumptions: The Dotted Line Dilemma

24:08 • 3min

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Navigating Perspectives in Conversations

27:08 • 20min

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Building Meaningful Connections in the Workplace

47:00 • 10min

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Exploring Respectful Disagreement and Personal Growth

57:02 • 3min

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Have you ever struggled to navigate tough conversations or felt stuck in disagreements? In this episode, I'm joined by Justin Jones-Fosu, founder of Work Meaningful, to help you bridge the gap. He shares how to set boundaries without building barriers in disagreements. We break down strategies for shifting away from fixed mindsets, finding common ground in polarizing topics, and building empathy through understanding others' stories. Get ready to communicate powerfully and maintain strong relationships.

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HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Meet Justin Jones-Fosu, founder of Work Meaningful.

06:30 Lessons Justin’s mother taught him about humanity and differences.

13:45 What is the best approach for conflict resolution?

20:15 How to replace conclusions with questions.

25:30 Ways to find common ground in polarizing conversations.

27:30 The conversation that redefined empathy for Justin.

32:15 How to respect people who have no respect for you.

40:00 What is the illusion of asymmetric insight?

44:30 Tips to create a positive culture of connection.

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