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Reframing Blame In Dating
- The phrase "He's just not that into you" corrected the idea that women must try harder to keep men.
- That message challenged the cultural belief that relationship problems mean personal failure.
When Interest Becomes Self-Blame
- Saying someone is "not that into you" can imply you're not enough and feed self-blame.
- That interpretation links cultural conditioning to feelings of inadequacy in dating.
Stop Investing Without Mutuality
- If someone won't show consistent, respectful interest, step back because there isn't enough to co-create a relationship.
- Avoid investing further when mutual love, care, trust and respect are absent.