Relationship Advice - I Don't Value Myself Enough

When we accept that sub par treatment, that doesn't mean that we're responsible for what the other person is doing. We need to cut our sives some slack and recognize, hold on a second, what is it that i have internalized? So outside of romantic situations, you don't tend to blame yourself, but you do in romantic situations. That's because of all of what you've internalized about romantic relationships and the habits that you've built to prolong the way. And then you can ask yourself, ut, what's the difference between, for instance, me at work or me around friends and family? And me in a romantic situation.