How to Get the Fringe Benefits of Dating Without Stepping Up

We've all grown up in the same world, where none of us were actually taught about boundaries properly while we were growing up. And we are all guilty of telling people what we think they want to hear, and we areAll guilty of avoiding conflict and criticism. If we're serious about being in a seri relationship, if we's serious about giving and receiving love, care, trust and respect, we mustn't accept sub par treatment. We have to be willing to step away from it when we recognize that somebody is not engaging with us in a mutual fashion. It's also oke for some one to say no, not be interested.