985 How to Read People and Make Winning Decisions w/Maria Konnikova

First published in 1936, 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie is a timeless guide to improving interpersonal skills. The book is divided into four main sections: Six Ways to Make People Like You, Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking, and Nine Ways to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment. Carnegie's principles emphasize the importance of genuine interest in others, active listening, and avoiding criticism and argument. The book offers practical advice on how to build strong relationships, communicate effectively, and influence others by aligning their self-interest with yours. It has been a cornerstone of personal development and business success for generations.

In 'The Marshmallow Test: Mastering Self-Control', Walter Mischel delves into the cognitive skills underlying willpower and long-term thinking. The book summarizes his decades-long research on the 'marshmallow test', a series of delayed-gratification experiments with young children. Mischel explains how the ability to delay gratification is a fundamental skill that predicts greater academic success, better health, and more positive relationships later in life. He also discusses strategies to enhance self-control and emphasizes that willpower can be learned and developed over time.

In this highly acclaimed book, Dr. Robert B. Cialdini explains the psychology behind why people say yes and how to apply these insights ethically. The book outlines six universal principles of influence: Reciprocation, Commitment and Consistency, Social Proof, Liking, Authority, and Scarcity. The new and expanded edition includes a seventh principle, Unity, along with new research, insights, and examples. Cialdini uses memorable stories and relatable examples to make the subject accessible and easy to understand, helping readers become more skilled persuaders and defend themselves against unethical influence attempts.

In 'The Biggest Bluff', Maria Konnikova recounts her transformation from a poker novice to a champion under the mentorship of Erik Seidel. The book delves into the psychological aspects of poker, highlighting lessons on self-awareness, decision-making, and the interplay between skill and chance. Konnikova's journey offers insights into human nature and personal growth, making it a compelling read beyond the realm of poker.