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The Intense Mind with Imi Lo

Anxious Attachment and the Anxious x Avoidant Pair- Jessica Baum and Imi Lo

Aug 20, 2022
Jessica Baum, author of 'Anxiously Attached', joins Imi Lo to discuss anxious attachment, attraction to avoidant partners, cultural influences, and relationship co-regulation. They explore the dynamics of anxious-avoidant relationships, self-regulation, and fostering inner nurturing for personal growth.
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  • Understanding the impact of cultural backgrounds on attachment styles.
  • Importance of co-regulation in healing anxious attachments and navigating relationship challenges.

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Understanding Anxious Attachment Patterns

Anxious attachment patterns and why individuals with this pattern are drawn to those with avoidant styles are explored. The impact of early self-regulation development, where caregivers play a crucial role, is highlighted. Jessica Baum shares insights from her book "Anxiously Attached" that redefine attachment through the lens of interpersonal neurobiology, focusing on the impact on the body and the sensations experienced.

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