Fucking Cancelled

Fucking Feelings: Attachment Theory and the Nexus

Jun 19, 2021

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What's the Most Important Thing About Consensus?

03:03

We're Very Bad at Building Consensus

01:33

Are Socialists Responsible for Meeting People's Needs?

03:17

Introduction

2min

What Is Attachment Theory?

4min

The Attachment Styles and How They Come About

1min

What Is Anxious Preoccupied Attachment?

5min

Are Relationships Relevant in a Modern Context?

3min

Relationships and Attachment Theory

3min

How Do You Think the Nexus Can Impact Attachment?

2min

Is There a Relationship Between a Domestic Violence and an Abusive Relationship

2min

The Importance of Doing Everything Right According to the Nexus

2min

10.

Are You Seeing Your Relationships Severely Severed?

2min

11.

Cancellation Is Not Just a Call-Out Culture

4min

12.

What Is the Fawn Response to Threat?

5min

13.

Cancellation Is a Form of Attachment Trauma

3min

14.

Secure Attachment

2min

15.

I Believe Terror Love and Brainwashing by Alexander Stein

2min

16.

How to Create a Disorganized Attachment in Relationships

4min

17.

The Cult Produces Disorganized Attachment

5min

18.

Cancel Culture Be a Form of Fundamentalism?

2min

19.

Soi Union, Is It a Form of Fundamentalism?

2min

20.

How Disorganized Attachment Creates the Conditions Under Which People Act Like That

5min

21.

Loyalty Is Like Secure Attachment

2min

22.

Is Loyalty a Toxic Weapon Within the Nexus?

2min

23.

The Consequences of Complicity

2min

24.

How Does Stuff Function?

3min

25.

Are Socialists Responsible for Meeting People's Needs?

3min

26.

Is This Pay What You Can?

2min

27.

Is This Dismissive Avoidance?

3min

28.

What's the Most Important Thing About Consensus?

3min

29.

Is There a Consensus Building Strategy?

3min

30.

Are You in a Situation of Scarcity or Material Scarcity?

2min

31.

We're Very Bad at Building Consensus

2min

32.

The Left Needs Relationships

4min

33.

Complex PTSD

4min

In Episode 16, we break down the basics of attachment theory and the various attachment styles. We discuss the difficulty of developing secure attachment within the Nexus, the role of disorganized attachment in fundamentalism, and the importance of understanding attachment needs for socialists.

Part of the Fucking Feelings series.

Show Notes

Clementine's Substack

Hand-Holding “Supportive Touch” Leads to Less Pain

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving, by Pete Walker

The Traumatic Impact of Media Humiliation, Misrepresentation and Victim-Shaming on Narrative Identity and Well-Being, by Dr Christine Marie

Terror, Love and Brainwashing Attachment in Cults and Totalitarian Systems, By Alexandra Stein

The possibility of political pleasure: David Graeber

In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, by Gabor Maté

S3E2 of Groundings - 'The Revolution Can't Be Quarantined' with Steven Powers

Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence -- From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror, by Judith Lewis Herman

extras on this topic:

The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships, by Diane Poole Heller

Attached: The New Science Of Adult Attachment And How It Can Help You Find--and Keep-- Love, by Amir Levine, Rachel Heller

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.

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