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Fucking Feelings: Attachment Theory and the Nexus

Fucking Cancelled

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How Disorganized Attachment Creates the Conditions Under Which People Act Like That

In a cult or something people do all sorts of weird things right? Or they act in ways that might be totally of alignment with their integrity. And I think like a similar thing can be said inside the nexus Where it's like, you know, people will for example take part in like shaming and degrading someone Even if they profess to have the belief that shaming and degrading people is wrong. People cannot cope with that level of threat and so they instead Come fly and just do what they're told. There's a very real function that happens in people's bodies, which is that when people are in a Distressed nervous system response a fight flight nervous system response.

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