283 Solo Show! Dr. John Delony's Wrong About This, Answering Listener Questions, and the Latest Research on Trauma & ADHD
Oct 1, 2024
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Join renowned physician Gabor Mate, trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk, and Internal Family Systems creator Richard Schwartz for a lively discussion on ADHD and trauma. They delve into the link between Adverse Childhood Experiences and ADHD symptoms, challenging misconceptions about the condition. The host shares personal travel anecdotes and innovative tools like the BRIC device to enhance focus. Plus, tackling listener questions about family dynamics and packing tips adds a personal touch, ensuring a rich exploration of ADHD's complexities.
Attending a trauma-informed care conference highlighted the ongoing struggle with imposter syndrome among individuals with ADHD, despite their knowledge and expertise.
Recent research indicates a concerning link between adverse childhood experiences and ADHD severity, emphasizing the need for trauma-informed therapeutic approaches.
Deep dives
Understanding Imposter Syndrome in ADHD
Individuals with ADHD often grapple with feelings of imposter syndrome, which can manifest as a constant need to prove their knowledge and worth. The speaker shares experiences from a recent trauma-informed care conference in Europe, noting that despite feeling knowledgeable on the subject, there was still a sense of inadequacy. Attending the conference validated that much of what was learned had already been absorbed, yet the speaker still questioned their own qualifications. This resonates with many adults with ADHD who feel they must constantly play catch-up or convince others of their capabilities.
Navigating Travel Challenges with ADHD
Traveling can be particularly daunting for individuals with ADHD, as new environments and systems often invoke anxiety and stress. The speaker recounts their experience in London, highlighting the stark differences between US and UK transport systems, which contributed to their sensory overload. Despite the discomfort, they also found joy and spontaneity in solo sightseeing, illustrating the dual nature of ADHD experiences during travel. The narrative emphasizes that while challenges are inherent to travel, the exploration can also bring fulfillment and joy.
Effective Packing Strategies for ADHD
Packing for trips can be an overwhelming task for those with ADHD due to the cognitive demands involved in organizing and prioritizing items. The speaker suggests creating a master packing list that includes essentials for every trip, drastically reducing decision fatigue. By visualizing each day of travel and planning outfit changes, individuals can manage expectations and simplify the packing process. This approach not only conserves mental energy but also alleviates the stress associated with forgetting key items while emphasizing that it is okay to purchase forgotten necessities at the destination.
Exploring the Link Between ADHD and Trauma
Recent research reveals a troubling connection between the severity of ADHD symptoms and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), indicating that higher ACE scores correlate with increased ADHD difficulties. The discussion reinforces the idea that understanding trauma's impact on ADHD can guide individuals toward seeking help from trauma-informed therapists. This information serves to validate the lived experiences of many who struggle with ADHD and potential trauma without recognizing the connection. The reminder to prioritize mental health and seek therapy as a means of addressing these complexities can be crucial for personal growth and healing.
I'm trying out a new solo show style this week, and I hope you love it! I've got a bunch of fun segments for you:
First, I tell you all about my trip to Oxford University for a conference on Trauma with some of the biggest names in the industry (Gabor Mate, Bessel van der Kolk, Richard Schwartz, etc). Traveling is always a mixed bag for me - exciting and exhausting, and we dive into it all
And lastly, I go on a spicy rant about how Dr. John Delony says that ADHD is "JUST" the body's response to chaos. Excuse me no. Get outta here with that.