Salary Negotiations, First Impressions and Office Politics | Sandeep Das | FO455 Raj Shamani

Jan 8, 2026

In this engaging discussion, Sandeep Das, a storytelling and negotiation leadership coach, shares insights on navigating salary negotiations and office politics. He emphasizes the importance of human-centric skills in the age of AI and offers practical tips for crafting persuasive stories. Sandeep explains how first impressions influence perceptions and discusses the vital role of personal branding in career advancement. With a focus on strategic office dynamics, he reveals how storytelling can become a powerful tool for success.

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ADVICE

Negotiate Everything You Deserve

Learn to negotiate every element of your career: salary, role, promotion and title.
Use leverage like multiple offers, give ranges (e.g., 13–15L) and ask for non-monetary perks if budget is fixed.

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INSIGHT

Human Skills Outlast Technical Skills

Technical skills get you the job but human-centric skills take you to the top.
Skills like storytelling, negotiation, executive presence and strategic thinking are long-term safeguards versus AI.

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Tell Stories With A Tension Arc

Structure stories as problem → tension → solution and open with a short personal anecdote.
Build tension before proposing solutions; people buy the problem first, solution second.

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Which skills survive AI and non-linear careers

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Human-centric roles that remain valuable

06:53 • 49sec

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Who keeps tech jobs when AI arrives

07:42 • 5min

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Brand, politics and why some managers rise

12:58 • 34sec

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Negotiation: a career multiplier

13:32 • 4min

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Titles, status and client-facing strategy

17:43 • 4min

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How to use storytelling to persuade

21:35 • 14min

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Story formula: problem, tension, solution

35:57 • 3min

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Tension: the core of persuasive storytelling

39:21 • 3min

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First impressions and subconscious signals

42:24 • 5min

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When luxury or modesty matters culturally

46:55 • 8min

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Finding your niche using Ikigai

54:36 • 7min

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Embrace office politics strategically

01:01:08 • 5min

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Merit vs. ecosystem: what really wins

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T-model: be T-shaped—specialize and generalize

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Build a personal brand beyond your role

01:10:26 • 15min

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Learn daily and teach to retain knowledge

01:25:14 • 4min

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Exposure therapy to overcome regrets

01:29:33 • 6min

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Loyalty vs. selfish career moves

01:35:42 • 18min

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Work-life integration and the five-hour rule

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Say no diplomatically and preserve relationships

02:01:30 • 17min

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Don't ask permission—pilot then apologise

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(00:00) - Intro
(04:15) - AI Replacing People
(12:38) - Importance of Negotiation
(15:25) - How to Negotiate a High Salary
(25:33) - Importance of Human Skills
(29:50) - Importance of Storytelling
(36:14) - How to Craft a Story
(42:56) - Power of First Impressions
(45:07) - Science of Smiling
(46:12) - Do Cleanliness, Gadgets & Luxury Matter?
(51:49) - First-Gen vs Third-Gen Deal Mindset
(54:26) - Finding Your Niche with Ikigai
(01:01:16) - Why You Should Embrace Politics
(1:05:50) - Is Merit Enough to Become a CEO?
(1:08:03) - The T-Model: Kodawari
(1:10:28) - Why Personal Branding Matters
(1:25:09) - Learning for One Hour Every Day
(1:29:27) - Two Sides of the Brain & Exposure Therapy
(1:35:34) - Never Be Loyal to Your Job
(1:48:21) - Not Being Selfish Limits Career Growth
(1:53:32) - Work-Life Balance & Right to Disconnect Bill
(2:01:29) - Being Likeable vs Being Diplomatic
(2:04:43) - Four Ways to Say No
(2:05:53) - Becoming Fake at Work & Role of Humility
(2:11:55) - Raj’s Fears
(2:18:25) - Don’t Ask for Permission
(2:21:20) - Learning to Eat Alone
(2:26:53) - Closing Thoughts
(2:28:53) - Outro

In today’s episode, we have Sandeep Das, Storytelling & Negotiation Leadership Coach, Best-Selling Author and visiting faculty at IIM B and IIM L. We talk about the skills AI cannot replace, why only a few managers keep getting promoted while others get fired, the role of negotiation in career growth, and why storytelling is one of the most powerful professional skills today.

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