Episode 47: Autistic Burnout (Part 2): A Deep Dive Into The Diversity of Burnout
Mar 29, 2024
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Two AuDHD mental health professionals, Patrick Casale and Dr. Megan Ann Neff, discuss the nuances of burnout, seasonal depression, and strategic withdrawal. They explore how burnout can be related to other health conditions, the importance of honoring limitations, and tailored strategies for addressing burnout in neurodivergent individuals. The conversation sheds light on internalized ableism, grief, and the significance of communication in protecting one's energy.
Recognize burnout linked to co-occurring health issues, needing diverse approaches.
Embrace limitations, honor your needs, combat internalized ableism for profound self-care.
Implement tailored strategies to address burnout in neurodivergent individuals, communicate needs effectively.
Deep dives
Understanding Burnout and Anticipating
Within the episode, Patrick and Dr. Nef explore the concept of burnout and discuss how they are preparing for potential burnout. They delve into the idea of mental preparation for burnout, highlighting the importance of anticipating and recognizing the signs as a strategic measure to cope with the overwhelming demands and challenges that may lead to burnout. By acknowledging the possibility of burnout and mentally preparing for it, they emphasize the significance of proactive self-care practices.
Navigating Burnout During Challenging Seasons
The hosts reflect on how external factors such as seasonal changes and societal pressures can influence their experiences of burnout. They share personal anecdotes related to the impact of weather, societal expectations, and personal energy levels on their mental well-being. By discussing the challenges of navigating burnout during tough seasonal changes and societal demands, they shed light on the complexities of managing one's mental health in varying circumstances.
Strategic Withdrawal as a Coping Strategy
The episode delves into the concept of strategic withdrawal as a coping strategy, especially for autistic individuals experiencing burnout. Patrick and Dr. Nef discuss the importance of utilizing strategic withdrawal to manage energy levels and sensory input effectively during overwhelming times. They challenge the common perception of withdrawal as maladaptive, highlighting its significance as an adaptive response to protect one's mental well-being and navigate burnout.
Addressing Emotional Avoidance
The hosts address the topic of emotional avoidance as a common coping mechanism among autistic individuals. They emphasize the negative implications of emotional avoidance, such as heightened stress and disconnection, and discuss the importance of emotional acceptance. By promoting positive coping skills like journaling, mindfulness, therapy, and emotional expression, they encourage listeners to embrace emotions and engage in healthy emotional processing to enhance mental well-being.
Fantasies of Non-Existence and Emotional Integrity
In a candid exploration, Patrick and Dr. Nef share their experiences of having fantasies related to non-existence and the desire to escape overwhelming demands. They reflect on the impact of these fantasies on their mental health and well-being, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and processing such emotions. By normalizing the discussion around fantasies of non-existence and emotional integrity, they facilitate a deeper understanding of the complexities involved in coping with burnout and challenging emotions.
Burnout can make even the simplest tasks feel insurmountable, as well as look and mean very different things when you approach it from the lens of neurodiversity, where the meanings, causes, and coping mechanisms become very nuanced.
In this episode, Patrick Casale and Dr. Megan Ann Neff, two AuDHD mental health professionals, explore the landscape of burnout, seasonal depression, and the importance of strategic withdrawal, offering solace and understanding to those who tread these difficult terrains.
Top 3 reasons to listen to the entire episode:
Identify how what we call burnout might be related to co-occurring health conditions, such as alexithymia, chronic fatigue syndrome, seasonal depression, etc., and possibly require different approaches.
Shed light on internalized ableism and grief, and how recognizing and honoring your limitations can be both a struggle and a profound form of self-care.
Learn strategies for addressing burnout that are tailored to neurodivergent individuals, as well as how to communicate your needs to the people around you to protect your energy without causing worry.
Remember that acknowledging and respecting your brain's unique wiring isn't a sign of weakness — it's a brave act of self-compassion. Reflect on how you can implement these lessons into your life, honor your natural rhythms, and create your own Ulysses pacts with yourself and trusted people to safeguard your future self. Let's continue this conversation and support each other in our collective journeys towards mental harmony.
Citation: Mantzalas, J., Richdale, A. L., & Dissanayake, C. (2022). A conceptual model of risk and protective factors for autistic burnout. Autism research : official journal of the International Society for Autism Research, 15(6), 976–987. https://doi.org/10.1002/aur.2722