Tara Brach, a renowned author and meditation teacher with a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, dives into the transformative RAIN acronym—Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. She shares how this practice can enhance emotional awareness and improve relationships. The conversation explores embracing vulnerability, the interplay of compassion and mindfulness, and the significance of shared meditation experiences. With warmth and openness, Brach also touches on confronting fears to foster authentic living, making for an insightful discussion on personal growth and connection.
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Harris's Teasing
Dan Harris teased Tara Brach in his first book.
Brach wasn't upset, viewing it as a lesson in handling "fame and disrepute."
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Fame and Disrepute
People are conditioned to seek approval and validation.
Detaching from others' opinions is key to finding peace.
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Interpersonal Meditation
Practice interpersonal meditations, like dyad work (eye-gazing).
This can increase tolerance for discomfort and reveal shared vulnerability.
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The Dare Response
The Dare Response
Barry McDonough
Today we’re going to talk about a massively useful acronym, which can be used both on the cushion and in your free-range living. The acronym is RAIN -- R-A-I-N -- and rather than explaining it myself, I will leave that to my guest, who has become one of RAIN’s primary proponents. Tara Brach is an author, therapist, and meditation teacher. She has a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, she founded the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, and she has written several books, including her latest, which is called Radical Compassion. We first posted this interview in January 2020, shortly after that book came out. In this conversation, we talk about: What RAIN is and how to apply it in many areas of your life, including relationships; a Buddhist list called The Eight Worldly Winds; and whether most people harbor a suspicion that there's something fundamentally wrong with us. But we start and end the conversation with a touchy subject. In my first book, I made fun of Tara a little bit, which didn’t go down that well with her, although I didn’t know that until this chat. I really respect how warm and open she was during this tricky discussion. Stay tuned until the very end, when we fully wrap that subject up. Also: We would appreciate it if you could take a few minutes to help us out by answering a brand-new survey about your experience with this podcast. Our team here cares deeply about you, our listeners, and we are always looking for ways to improve. Please go to https://www.tenpercent.com/survey. Thank you! Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/tara-brach-repost
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