

Stop Caring What Other People Think of You (Bruce Hood on 10% Happier with Dan Harris)
236 snips Aug 25, 2025
Bruce Hood, a Professor of Developmental Psychology at Bristol University and happiness course creator, teams up with Dan Harris, author and mindfulness advocate. They dive into prioritizing personal values over societal opinions, offering strategies to foster self-acceptance. The conversation shifts to how negative comparisons affect self-worth and the importance of social connections and resilience in driving happiness. They share insights on embracing authenticity, the power of active listening, and the continuous practice required for lasting happiness.
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Happiness As Comfortable Resilience
- Happiness is a general sense of comfort or 'okayness' rather than constant elation.
- Resilience is the speed and skill of rebounding from negative events that marks happier people.
Shift Perspective To Reduce Self-Focus
- Shift from egocentric to allocentric thinking by practicing gratitude and acts of kindness.
- Use third-person self-talk to psychologically distance and reduce the impact of negative thoughts.
Act On Generous Impulses
- When you feel a prompt to be generous, follow through instead of squelching it.
- Small spontaneous acts of giving reliably boost mood and connection.