"I'm Busy, Exhausted, and Stuck with a Long List. How Do I NOT Feel Like a Failure?" -- ARISE Member Training with Mike Christensen [Episode 219]
Nov 7, 2023
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Cognitive behavioral therapist, Mike Christensen, introduces the benefits of Team CBT and shares tips for managing emotions. Natalie discusses feeling overwhelmed and stuck with a long to-do list. They also explore worries about the future and identify self-defeating beliefs. The importance of embracing limitations and honoring beliefs is discussed. The podcast concludes with reflections on insights and hope for the community.
Focusing on six key areas for personal excellence is crucial: connecting with a higher power, building financial stability, investing in mental and physical wellness, creating calm and uplifting environments, building strong family relationships, and pursuing one's purpose.
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) plays an essential role in personal development, offering an evidence-based approach and incorporating empathy, resistance assessment, and various relief and learning methods.
Negative emotions like anxiety and guilt can have positive aspects indicating care, high moral standards, and a desire to learn from mistakes; reframing these emotions can drive personal growth.
Deep dives
Recognizing the Six Areas of Focus for Personal Excellence
The podcast episode acknowledges the importance of focusing on six key areas for personal excellence: connecting with a higher power, building financial stability, investing in mental and physical wellness, creating calm and uplifting environments, building strong family relationships, and pursuing one's purpose.
The Significance of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in Personal Development
The episode introduces the concept of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and its role in personal development. It highlights the benefits of CBT, including its evidence-based approach and incorporation of empathy, assessment of resistance, and various methods to provide relief and learning.
The Importance of Recognizing the Positive Aspects of Negative Emotions
The podcast emphasizes the positive aspects of negative emotions like anxiety and guilt. It discusses how these emotions can indicate our care, high moral standards, and desire to learn from past mistakes. It encourages acknowledging these positive aspects and reframing negative emotions to drive personal growth.
Defeating Negative Thoughts and Challenging Self-Defeating Beliefs
The episode presents techniques to counter negative thoughts and self-defeating beliefs. It demonstrates methods such as externalizing negative thoughts, arguing back with evidence, accepting thoughts with grace and compassion, and engaging in counter-attack to disregard negative voices.
The Need for Persistence and Relapse Management in Personal Transformation
The podcast discusses the inevitability of relapse in personal transformation and the importance of persistently working towards positive change. It emphasizes the significance of predicting and preparing for relapses, and highlights the benefits of recognizing one's progress and staying committed to personal growth.
We had one of the best ARISE conversations a few months ago with my personal coach and cognitive behavioral therapist, Mike Christensen.
I have researched and personally experienced the power of the "TEAM-CBT" methods for 7+ years, and I'd say this is the #1 resource that I turn to whenever I'm feeling anxious, discouraged, angry, etc. It is incredibly practical, and I've used these methods to help my family and friends, as well.
If you are looking to gain new tools for managing anxiety, discouragement, anger, guilt, sadness, etc., this podcast will be a HUGE strength for you.