

#322: Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong
Jul 19, 2017
Join Eric Barker, author of 'Barking Up the Wrong Tree' and popular blogger, as he challenges conventional wisdom on success. He reveals how high school valedictorians often struggle in leadership roles and argues that both grit and quitting have their moments. Barker dives into the myths of being nice in business—sometimes beneficial, sometimes not—and discusses how introverts can thrive in networking. He also highlights the precarious balance between ambition and personal relationships, urging listeners to redefine their paths to happiness.
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School Rewards Compliance Not Mastery
- School rewards compliance and generalists, not creativity or mastery.
- Life rewards mastery and rule-breaking innovation, which valedictorians often avoid.
Be Nice But Assertive
- Be nice but avoid being a doormat; assertively advocate for yourself.
- Surround yourself with good people to protect and boost your success.
Use WOOP To Decide Grit
- Use the WOOP method: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan, to decide grit or quit.
- Feel energized by your plan? Then double down on that goal.