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Is Radical Conversion God's Back-Up Plan? (#188)

May 8, 2023

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Episode notes

Introduction

2min

The Wordless Book

2min

The Importance of Attachment in the Foster Care System

3min

The Still Face Experiment

2min

The Good Enough Parent Principle

3min

The Differences Between Theological Assumptions and Parenting

5min

The Importance of Fitting In

2min

The Different Types of Attachment in Adults

2min

The Importance of Secure Attachment

2min

10.

The Evolution of Abandonment

2min

11.

The Importance of Emotions in Depression

4min

12.

The Effects of Emotional Abuse on Attachment

3min

13.

The Science of Attachment

5min

14.

The Correspondence View and Hypothesis of Attachment

2min

15.

The Importance of Security in Faith Traditions

3min

16.

Radical Conversion: God's Backup Plan for People

4min

17.

The Power of Community to Celebrate Recovery

3min

18.

The Different Ways to Relate to God

4min

19.

The Neurodivergence of Pastors

2min

20.

The Back to Regular Attachment Science

2min

21.

The Power of Contemplation

3min

22.

The Tone Mint and the New Perspective on Attachment

2min

23.

The Toxic Theology of End Times Expectations

3min

Re-joining me today is author, therapist, and researcher Krispin Mayfield to discuss his book "Attached to God: A Practical Guide to Deeper Spiritual Experience." “Attachment science” applied to our relationship to God is a topic of emerging interest for me personally. We talk through attachment trauma, the latest research findings, and how our nervous systems adapt depending on attachment style.

Krispin's Book: Attached to God: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-God-Practical-Spiritual-Experience/dp/0310363799

YHP - Christian Heavy Music Episode with Krispin & Matt Carter: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000543364775

Still Face Experiment: https://www.gottman.com/blog/research-still-face-experiment/

Dr. Sue Johnson’s "Love Sense" Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyCHT9AbD_Y&t=4s

"A Gentler God" by Doug Frank: https://www.amazon.com/Gentler-God-Doug-Frank/dp/0732404304

"Atonement and the New Perspective" by Stephen Burnhope: https://www.amazon.com/Atonement-New-Perspective-Stephen-Burnhope/dp/153264647X

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