The Female Dating Strategy

Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is ”Horrible Advice”

Jan 4, 2023
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INSIGHT

Article Lacks Coherent Argument

  • The hosts see the Glamour piece as emotionally driven and lacking a coherent argument against "if he wanted to, he would."
  • They argue the phrase is a pragmatic filter, not an indictment of women's worth.
ADVICE

Don't Take His Inaction Personally

  • Don’t internalize a man's lack of effort as your failure; his behavior often reflects him, not you.
  • Move on rather than troubleshoot every excuse or make yourself smaller for his interest.
ANECDOTE

Deleted Invite Reveals Fragile Ego

  • Speaker 1 described a deleted message where a man asked her out then removed it to avoid rejection.
  • She used it to illustrate men protecting fragile egos by avoiding follow-through.
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