The Importance of What You Want

"What you want and what a man can provide for you are two separate things," she says. "If your needs are not getting met, that is a big enough problem." The reason why is irrelevant if he's avoidant or mentally ill - it doesn't matter as long as his needs aren't being met. 'That's literally the point of if you wanted to be word': We're saying that this relationship is about him and him alone,' writes LZ Granderson in an interview with If You Want To Be A Man.