

The Female Dating Strategy
The Female Dating Strategy
Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @FemDatStrat Instagram: @_TheFemaleDatingStrategy
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Jan 10, 2026 • 44min
What Is FDS: Rekindling The Communal Flame
Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our bestBuckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up. As we shared on Savanna's Swan Song (last pod), If you are still subscribed to the Patreon, we very much value your contribution that goes solely towards production and maintenance costs at the moment.FOR YOUR REFLECTION:pillars of FDS, or layers of the cake, or stories of the pyramid Leveling up - "who do I want to be?" Standards and boundaries Date with intention - continuous vetting that reflects (2)SEND US YOUR Level-up stories Roast-a-scrote tales Advice (tough love) Guest suggestions at: contact@femaledatingstrategy.comWe love you all and are super excited to restart the conversation and to keep the flame alive 👑

Jan 3, 2026 • 17min
Savanna's Swan Song
Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!

Jul 16, 2025 • 44min
Logical Fallacies Part 2
Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon
🌐 Explore More FDS
Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: @femdatstrat
Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

Jul 9, 2025 • 25min
How To Have A Hot Girl Summer
Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon baddies, we're bringing this one out of the vault just in time for summer. In this episode, the Queens break down what it really means to have a Hot Girl Summer FDS style.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon
🌐 Explore More FDS
Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: @femdatstrat
Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

Jul 2, 2025 • 1h 6min
Emotional Maturity: The Foundation of a Secure Partner
The Queens unpack emotional maturity, why it’s the core of any functional relationship and how to recognise it (or the lack of it).
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on our NEW and IMPROVED Patreon!
👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon
🌐 Explore More FDS
Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: @femdatstrat
Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 11min
Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip
Rose is joined by Sarah from Lainey Gossip to dissect the deeply embedded inequalities in the filmmaking and film criticism industries.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
🌐 Explore More FDS
Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: @femdatstrat
Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

Jun 18, 2025 • 47min
Momsplaining Love: A Mother's Day Special
The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating.
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
🌐 Explore More FDS
Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: @femdatstrat
Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

Jun 11, 2025 • 41min
Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity
Lundy Bancroft, a respected author and expert on domestic abuse, joins to tackle the topics of toxic masculinity and coercive control. He highlights how abusive behavior is learned, not innate, and contrasts the effectiveness of intervention programs versus traditional therapy. Lundy discusses the impact of media and socialization on young boys, warning against romanticizing harmful traits. He shares strategies for women to identify red flags in dating and emphasizes the importance of strong personal boundaries and collective support among women.

Jun 4, 2025 • 41min
The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward
The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged.
Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558
Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html
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May 28, 2025 • 37min
Gaslight, Deflect, Repeat: The Logical Fallacies Used to Derail Women's Standards
Originally a bonus episode for our Patreon Queens, this deep dive is now unlocked for the public! In this episode, the Bonus Queens break down the most common logical fallacies men and society at large use to dismiss women’s boundaries, dodge accountability, and manipulate the dating narrative in their favour.
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/
Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html
Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat
Follow us!
Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy
Website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat
@femdatstrat
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/


