
The Female Dating Strategy
Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Diana and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.
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Latest episodes

Jul 16, 2025 • 44min
Logical Fallacies Part 2
Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics.
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Jul 9, 2025 • 25min
How To Have A Hot Girl Summer
Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon baddies, we're bringing this one out of the vault just in time for summer. In this episode, the Queens break down what it really means to have a Hot Girl Summer FDS style.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon
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Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Twitter: @femdatstrat
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Jul 2, 2025 • 1h 6min
Emotional Maturity: The Foundation of a Secure Partner
The Queens unpack emotional maturity, why it’s the core of any functional relationship and how to recognise it (or the lack of it).
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📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
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Want more FDS content? Join us on our NEW and IMPROVED Patreon!
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Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 11min
Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip
Rose is joined by Sarah from Lainey Gossip to dissect the deeply embedded inequalities in the filmmaking and film criticism industries.
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📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
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Twitter: @femdatstrat
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Jun 18, 2025 • 47min
Momsplaining Love: A Mother’s Day Special
The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating.
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📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
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Jun 11, 2025 • 41min
Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity
The Queens are once again joined by renowned author and domestic abuse expert, Lundy Bancroft, whose groundbreaking work Why Does He Do That? has helped millions of women recognize the patterns of coercive control and emotional abuse in intimate relationships, to discuss toxic masculinity.
Lundy Bancroft's first FDS appearance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IH7Y0rJ8Kkw
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👉 Download here
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Jun 4, 2025 • 41min
The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward
The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged.
Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558
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May 28, 2025 • 37min
Gaslight, Deflect, Repeat: The Logical Fallacies Used to Derail Women’s Standards
Originally a bonus episode for our Patreon Queens, this deep dive is now unlocked for the public! In this episode, the Bonus Queens break down the most common logical fallacies men and society at large use to dismiss women’s boundaries, dodge accountability, and manipulate the dating narrative in their favour.
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May 21, 2025 • 47min
Safety First! Non-Negotiables for Smart Dating
The Queens discuss how you can keep yourself safe when dating. Safety first!
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May 14, 2025 • 44min
Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Renowned feminist Dr. Gail Dines (re) joins the Queens for another deep-dive into the devastating effects of the porn industry on modern masculinity and women.
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