
The Female Dating Strategy
Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Diana and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.
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Latest episodes

May 7, 2025 • 54min
Being Hot and Having Fun With Amber Akilla
The Queens are joined by special guest Amber Akilla to discuss the ins and outs of how to live your best life.
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Amber's Instagram: @amberakilla
Amber's Podcast: Friend Crush
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Apr 30, 2025 • 55min
Dating, Trolls, and Male Loneliness
The Queens are joined by Lisa from the AudaciTea podcast, where they serve the tea on origin stories, being a Swiftie, online trolls, male loneliness and, of course, having sky high standards.
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Check out the AudaciTea podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788
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Apr 23, 2025 • 50min
Clocking Out of Toxic Jobs and Toxic Men with Fleeksie
Join Diana and Fleeksie as they explore the unsettling parallels between toxic workplaces and unhealthy relationships. They share empowering personal stories, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and setting high standards. The conversation dives into the critical need for boundaries in both work and love, while also tackling the pitfalls of conformity in creativity. Listeners will find inspiration in the shift toward freelance independence and the liberation that comes from escaping toxic environments. It's all about growth, empowerment, and reclaiming your narrative!

Apr 16, 2025 • 51min
Nap Queen Energy: Why Rest is a Revolutionary Act
The Queens unpack the importance of reclaiming your time, energy and sanity in a hustle-obsessed culture that glorifies burnout.
Savannah's appearance on the Audaci-Tea podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3SAa1bz70A&list=PLmy-GF0YwC9rHYPhGZmL4NYdIAKbLA8dH&index=4
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Apr 9, 2025 • 1h 3min
Grief, Growth, and the Dead Dad’s Club
The Queens get real about loss, legacy, and what it means to navigate life (and the dating world) after losing a father.
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Apr 2, 2025 • 50min
Dickmatization Detox
The queens break down the science (and scam) behind why women keep going back to subpar partners and how to break free from the dopamine-fueled delusion.
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Mar 26, 2025 • 45min
Lights, Camera, Misogyny: The Hollywood Roast-a-Scrote
The Roast-a-Scrote is back and this time Hollywood is on the FDS BBQ.
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Mar 19, 2025 • 47min
Memory Lane is a Dead End: Why Queens Don’t Look Back
The Queens unpack the seductive pull of nostalgia and why romanticising the past is a losing game.
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Mar 12, 2025 • 46min
What Women Can Learn from Male Entitlement
The Queens break down audacity of male entitlement—when it’s reckless, when it’s strategic, and how women can borrow just enough of that confidence to level up their own lives.
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Mar 5, 2025 • 58min
Levelling Up in 2025
The Queens discuss their plans for levelling up in 2025 and how you can too.
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