The Female Dating Strategy Safety First! Non-Negotiables for Smart Dating
May 21, 2025
The hosts dive into essential dating safety tips, emphasizing the importance of trusting your instincts. They advise against going to each other's homes early on and recommend using video calls for vetting. Other highlights include the importance of keeping your location private, carrying cash, and having a safety plan. They discuss spotting red flags, such as evasive answers and negging behavior. Social media sleuthing and even background checks emerge as valuable tools for ensuring safety while dating, stressing the need for boundaries and self-respect.
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No Home Visits Early On
- Do not go to his home and do not invite him to yours during early dating stages.
- Keep private spaces private until you know his character and intentions.
Use Short Video Vetting
- Do a short FaceTime or phone pre-vet call (under ~20 minutes) before meeting in person.
- Use video to check attraction and basic behavior, then save deeper conversation for the date.
Control Your Transportation
- Drive yourself or use public transit/Uber instead of letting him pick you up on a date.
- Never give him your home address and avoid being dependent on him for transport.