The Importance of Opposite in a Relationship

I like women who are introverted, especially in a relationship. I think dating an introverted man is like just constant emotional coddling. They're boring. They don't want to go out and do things. There's annoying. Don't think as a guy's loud in the life of the party doesn't have low self esteem. Maybe this is just because of my own issues. Like, I can spot a low self esteem extrovert too.