How to Level Up Your Pick Me Friends

A lot of women in bad relationships where their man doesn't treat them right, they'll get mad at quote, quote, more fortunate women and lash out at them. It's kind of like, yeah, my boyfriend might treat me like shit and neglect me and forget my birthday and he broke my dog's legs. But it's really hurtful of you to point that out to me. And again, she's shooting the messenger, the woman is in a shitty relationship. How is that not the same amount of emotional bludgeoning than her being in it? I would feel worse if someone told me, oh, he treats his dog better than you than if someone had said to me