Merve Emre on emotional intelligence as corporate control (Re-release)
Dec 31, 2024
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Merve Emre, an Associate Professor of English at the University of Oxford and a contributor to The New Yorker, discusses the dark side of emotional intelligence. She reveals how this concept, often seen as beneficial, has been weaponized by corporations for control over employees. Emre scrutinizes its origins, the socio-economic factors at play, and the superficial nature of corporate emotional intelligence training. The conversation delves into emotional labor's complexities, advocating for a more genuine approach in workplaces that values authentic emotional expression.
Emotional intelligence has been co-opted by corporations as a method of control, pressuring employees to conform rather than addressing systemic issues.
Recognizing emotional intelligence as a social construct emphasizes the importance of relational dynamics and systemic factors in shaping emotional responses at work.
Deep dives
The Origins and Implications of Emotional Intelligence
Emotional intelligence (EI) originated from a framework that suggests individuals can possess skills in perceiving, understanding, and managing emotions. Initially popularized by Daniel Goleman, the concept has been critiqued for propagating the notion of personal deficiencies that lead to emotional shortcomings, which can pressure individuals into conforming to corporate expectations. It is argued that EI has been co-opted by corporations as a means of control, nudging employees towards conformity and compliance rather than addressing systemic workplace issues. This creates a dynamic where employees are taught to manage their emotions under demanding conditions, potentially stifling legitimate grievances about their work environments.
Social Context Versus Individual Responsibility
The discussion around emotional intelligence often neglects the significant influence of social and systemic factors on emotional management, steering focus away from broader contextual issues. The classic marshmallow experiment highlighted how socio-economic backgrounds affect an individual's ability to delay gratification, indicating that emotional regulation cannot be solely attributed to personal intelligence. This omission in the conversation indicates a risk of individualizing emotional challenges while ignoring their socio-economic roots, thus oversimplifying complex dynamics at play. Recognizing these external influences is crucial for developing healthier work environments that consider the comprehensive factors affecting emotional responses.
The Dual Role of Emotional Labor
Emotional labor is defined not only as a set of skills but also as an obligation imposed upon individuals within their professional roles to manage their emotions actively. While the skills associated with emotional intelligence can be beneficial for effective interpersonal communication and job performance, they can also lead to a sense of inauthenticity and burnout when used to meet unrealistic workplace expectations. Labor that requires constant emotional management can be draining and blameworthy, especially in high-stress professions such as teaching or healthcare. It is essential to balance the demands of emotional labor with supporting employees' well-being, ensuring they don't simply perform but also thrive psychologically.
Reconstructing Emotional Intelligence Discussions
To enhance the conversation surrounding emotional intelligence, a shift towards viewing it from relational perspectives rather than purely individualistic or skill-based frameworks is suggested. By recognizing emotional intelligence as a social construct shaped by interactions between individuals, we can better appreciate the dynamics at play that influence emotional responses in professional settings. This approach encourages organizations to consider the relational nature of their workforce and the systemic conditions that contribute to emotional dynamics rather than simply categorizing individuals based on their emotional skills. Emphasizing this relational aspect could foster more equitable and supportive workplace cultures while promoting mental wellness alongside productivity.
It's been 25 years since the concept of emotional intelligence exploded onto the scene. Cultural critic Merve Emre makes a bold case that in the wrong hands, it can be used to exploit people. We unpack the surprising roots of emotional intelligence, how it's been co-opted as a form of corporate control and why you might want to rethink some of your core assumptions about emotions at work. This episode originally aired on June 8, 2021.
You can find the full transcript for this episode at go.ted.com/T4GTscript6