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Jun 3, 2025 • 30min

The psychology of forgiveness with Michael McCullough

Michael McCullough, a UC San Diego psychology professor and a pioneer in forgiveness studies, joins Adam Grant to delve into the intricacies of forgiveness. They discuss why forgiveness is essential for emotional health yet not always a solution to conflict. The conversation explores how humans evolved to forgive, the psychology behind grudges, and the delicate balance of seeking and granting forgiveness in relationships. Additionally, they tackle the cultural influences on forgiveness and its transformative effects on mental well-being.
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May 27, 2025 • 32min

The secrets of a great apology

In this engaging discussion, Beth Polin, a management professor specializing in apologies, and Mark Gallagher, an executive with a Formula One background, share fascinating insights on the art of apology. They delve into the complex elements that make an apology effective, highlighting the five R's: regret, rationale, responsibility, repentance, and repair. The duo also explores real-world examples from pre-K classrooms to high-stakes pit stops, revealing how sincere apologies can mend relationships and foster accountability in both personal and professional realms.
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May 20, 2025 • 35min

The dangers of identity capitalism with Jia Tolentino

Jia Tolentino, a prominent writer at The New Yorker and author of "Trick Mirror," dives deep into the perils of identity capitalism. She discusses how our online personas have become commodified, leading to unique pressures to present ourselves as marketable products. The conversation explores the psychological toll of self-surveillance and the impact on authenticity in the age of social media. Tolentino argues for a reevaluation of self-worth beyond personal branding, emphasizing the importance of genuine connections and community engagement.
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May 13, 2025 • 25min

The case against personal branding

In a world obsessed with personal branding, the podcast delves into the pitfalls of self-promotion. It questions the authenticity of crafted images and explores the value of genuine connections. Listeners learn that promoting ideas and contributions can be more impactful than focusing on oneself. The concept of a 'failure resume' emphasizes vulnerability as a pathway to authenticity. Humor and integrity also play vital roles in building reputation, suggesting that true success comes from collaboration rather than personal marketing.
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May 6, 2025 • 35min

Protecting your time with Linda Babcock

Linda Babcock, a renowned economics professor at Carnegie Mellon and co-author of 'The No Club,' dives into the complex dynamics of workplace commitments. She highlights how women disproportionately take on non-promotable tasks and shares insights on setting effective boundaries. The conversation touches on the significance of collective support in asserting 'no,' navigating the pitfalls of overcommitment, and innovative strategies for time management. Babcock's research encourages listeners to prioritize their time and redefine their professional relationships.
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67 snips
Apr 29, 2025 • 36min

How to say no

In this enlightening discussion, Vanessa Bonds, a Cornell professor and author, teams up with Sherry Liu, founder of the Eldest Daughter Club, to tackle the delicate art of saying 'no.' They explore the challenges faced by people-pleasers and offer practical strategies for setting boundaries in both personal and professional relationships. The conversation touches on societal pressures, the emotional toll of refusal, and the transformative power of a compassionate 'no.' Listeners will gain valuable insights on prioritizing their own needs while maintaining healthier connections.
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Apr 22, 2025 • 45min

Shonda Rhimes on saying yes to what scares you

Shonda Rhimes, the mastermind behind iconic shows like Grey's Anatomy and Bridgerton, joins Adam Grant for an engaging discussion. She reflects on her journey from law and medicine to storytelling, emphasizing the importance of representation and taking risks. Shonda shares insights from her memoir, Year of Yes, and explores how storytelling can change lives. The conversation also touches on creative leadership, the value of constructive feedback, and the emotional impact of Alzheimer's on families, showcasing her depth as both a creator and a person.
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Apr 15, 2025 • 31min

Melinda French Gates on navigating change

Melinda French Gates, a philanthropist and author of 'The Next Day', shares powerful insights on navigating change after significant life shifts such as her divorce and departure from the Gates Foundation. She emphasizes the importance of embracing transitions and having a solid support system. The conversation also explores financial literacy for children, the complexities of philanthropy, and the impact of personal motivations on charitable giving. Melinda encourages listeners to rethink generosity, focusing on unique contributions and fostering the next generation of leaders.
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Apr 8, 2025 • 38min

We’re wrong about what makes us happy with Dan Gilbert

Dan Gilbert, a Harvard psychologist and bestselling author of 'Stumbling on Happiness', reveals that our predictions about what will make us happy are often misguided. He shares his transformative journey from high school dropout to professor and discusses how major life events might not affect our happiness as much as we think. The conversation also explores the impact of minor annoyances on our emotional well-being, the importance of relationships over achievements, and offers clever insights on navigating personal conversations for greater fulfillment.
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Apr 1, 2025 • 42min

Megan Rapinoe & Sue Bird on leading great teams and moving on

Megan Rapinoe, an Olympic gold medalist and FIFA's best soccer player, teams up with Sue Bird, a 13-time All-Star and WNBA champion. Together, they discuss the vital dynamics of leadership in sports, sharing insights on team cohesion and adapting to change. The duo opens up about the challenges of retirement and the quest for new identities post-sport. They also explore the pressure athletes face and the importance of empowering women's sports, highlighting their commitment to creating a brighter future for female athletes.

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