ReThinking

Shonda Rhimes is the revolutionary creator, writer, and executive producer behind so many groundbreaking TV shows—from Grey’s Anatomy and Scandal to Bridgerton and How To Get Away With Murder. Her work has changed the way stories are told on TV and the lives of viewers who see themselves represented on the screen for the first time. Shonda and Adam sit down for a live conversation at BetterUp’s Uplift Summit to discuss the moments that shaped Shonda’s success, what it takes to make bold moves, and the lessons from Shonda’s memoir Year of Yes. They also compare notes on the shared traits of great leaders and storytellers, and Shonda weighs in on what makes a pitch compelling.FollowHost: Adam Grant (Instagram: @adamgrant | LinkedIn: @adammgrant | Website: adamgrant.net/) Guest: Shonda Rhimes (Instagram: @shondarhimes | TikTok: @shonarhimes) Linksshondaland.comshondalandmedia.comYear of Yes by Shonda RhimesSubscribe to TED Instagram: @tedYouTube: @TEDTikTok: @tedtoksLinkedIn: @ted-conferencesWebsite: ted.comPodcasts: ted.com/podcastsFor the full text transcript, visit ted.com/podcasts/rethinking-with-adam-grant-transcripts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Melinda French Gates, a philanthropist and author of 'The Next Day', shares powerful insights on navigating change after significant life shifts such as her divorce and departure from the Gates Foundation. She emphasizes the importance of embracing transitions and having a solid support system. The conversation also explores financial literacy for children, the complexities of philanthropy, and the impact of personal motivations on charitable giving. Melinda encourages listeners to rethink generosity, focusing on unique contributions and fostering the next generation of leaders.

Dan Gilbert, a Harvard psychologist and bestselling author of 'Stumbling on Happiness', reveals that our predictions about what will make us happy are often misguided. He shares his transformative journey from high school dropout to professor and discusses how major life events might not affect our happiness as much as we think. The conversation also explores the impact of minor annoyances on our emotional well-being, the importance of relationships over achievements, and offers clever insights on navigating personal conversations for greater fulfillment.

Megan Rapinoe, an Olympic gold medalist and FIFA's best soccer player, teams up with Sue Bird, a 13-time All-Star and WNBA champion. Together, they discuss the vital dynamics of leadership in sports, sharing insights on team cohesion and adapting to change. The duo opens up about the challenges of retirement and the quest for new identities post-sport. They also explore the pressure athletes face and the importance of empowering women's sports, highlighting their commitment to creating a brighter future for female athletes.

David Fajgenbaum, a physician scientist at Penn, faced death at 25 from Castleman's disease but miraculously saved himself by repurposing a drug. He founded Every Cure to help others unlock the potential of existing medications. In this discussion, he shares the building blocks of resilience and the disincentives in drug development. They also delve into how AI is revolutionizing the identification of new treatments and the importance of innovative partnerships between nonprofits and pharmaceutical companies in the fight against rare diseases.

In this enlightening chat, Vladyslav Vyazovskiy, a sleep physiologist from Oxford University, reveals the fascinating insights from studying hibernating animals. He explores the intriguing possibility of human hibernation and its potential to revolutionize space travel and medical therapies. The conversation debunks common sleep myths while examining personal sleep patterns over the rigid eight-hour norm. Vladyslav also highlights the intricate relationship between sleep quality and our understanding of its purpose in both humans and animals.

Ethan Kross, a psychologist and neuroscientist from the University of Michigan and author of "Chatter," dives deep into the complexities of our inner voices. He discusses how to transform negative self-talk into positive thought patterns and the role of self-distancing in problem-solving. The power of mental time travel for emotional resilience during crises, like COVID-19, is emphasized, alongside the surprising drawbacks of venting. Kross shares strategies for managing anxiety and the unique ways people experience their thoughts, providing insights for better emotion regulation.

Join John Koenig, a creative mind behind "The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows," as he introduces fascinating concepts like 'sonder'—the realization that everyone has a rich inner life. He and Adam dive into the bittersweet feeling of finishing a great book and the dread of chasing dreams. They explore the art of inventing words to express complex emotions, shedding light on how language fosters connection and empathy. Get ready to expand your emotional vocabulary and appreciate the nuances of human experiences!

Erin Meyer, a professor at INSEAD and author of "The Culture Map," dives into the fascinating world of cross-cultural communication. She discusses how cultural norms shape honesty and assertiveness, and shares her personal experiences with misunderstandings on her book tour in Japan. The conversation highlights the importance of adapting communication styles for effective collaboration across cultures. Meyer also emphasizes laughter as a bridge in cross-cultural interaction and the critical role of cultural intelligence in diverse workplaces.

Join clinical psychologist Caroline Fleck, who specializes in helping clients connect and change, as she shares insights from her book on validation. She discusses the transformative power of acknowledging others' feelings, emphasizing that validation fosters stronger relationships. Caroline distinguishes between empathetic validation and mere praise, highlighting why sometimes saying less is more. The conversation also touches on setting healthy boundaries and navigating emotional support in a digital age, ensuring genuine connection amidst life's challenges.