513 - Our Body and Brain are Not Always on the Same Page: Remastered
Jan 21, 2025
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Orit Krug, an award-winning dance/movement therapist, specializes in helping individuals and couples enhance intimacy by processing trauma. In this engaging discussion, Orit explores the emotional and physical impacts of jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. She emphasizes the power of movement therapy for healing and self-discovery, revealing how our bodies store trauma. The conversation also touches on navigating personal boundaries and the intricate connections between childhood experiences and current relationship dynamics, fostering deeper understanding and growth.
The somatic therapy retreat in Crete focuses on healing emotional complexities in non-monogamous relationships, offering a supportive community experience.
Understanding jealousy as a bodily sensation rather than just an emotion allows for deeper emotional processing and connection to underlying grief.
Engaging in relationships can facilitate personal growth and healing, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and acceptance of emotional complexities.
Deep dives
Somatic Therapy Retreat in Greece
A somatic therapy retreat for polyamorous individuals will be held on the island of Crete from March 31 to April 3, 2025. This retreat aims to support those navigating the emotional complexities of non-monogamy, particularly individuals struggling with emotional aspects of specific experiences like jealousy or grief. Participants will have the opportunity to connect with others in similar relational dynamics while engaging in nature and fostering a sense of community. The retreat is application-only, highlighting its intimate setting aimed at creating a supportive environment for healing and growth.
Understanding Jealousy as a Sensation
Jealousy, often a feeling experienced in non-monogamous relationships, can be understood as a bodily sensation rather than just an emotion to be regulated. Recognizing that jealousy may mask deeper emotions such as grief or sadness allows individuals to process these feelings effectively. By focusing on the sensations that arise, individuals can move through these emotions and challenge the narratives their minds create about jealousy. This approach fosters a better understanding of the connection between bodily sensations and emotional experiences, enhancing overall relational health.
The Disconnect Between Mind and Body
Individuals often experience a disconnect between their mind and body, particularly when managing strong emotions. The nervous system processes anniversaries of loss, changes in environment, and collective suffering in ways that the conscious mind may not grasp. Acknowledging and giving space to bodily feelings without trying to fix or control them can lead to healing and acceptance. Allowing the body to express feelings of grief or rage as they arise leads to improved emotional regulation and deeper self-acceptance.
Somatic Movement Therapy for Non-Monogamous Clients
Somatic movement therapy provides a unique avenue for exploring the emotional experiences of non-monogamous clients, addressing the physical manifestations of feelings such as panic or jealousy. Rather than relying solely on cognitive narratives associated with these feelings, somatic practices encourage clients to connect with their bodies and express their emotions through movement. This practice often sheds light on unresolved trauma or past experiences that still influence present behaviors. The therapeutic process emphasizes working with the body's instincts to navigate emotional challenges, fostering understanding and growth.
Healing Through Relationships
Healing does not require individuals to be fully healed before entering into relationships; instead, relationships can serve as a medium for personal growth and understanding. Engaging in dynamic interactions prompts exploration of unresolved issues, feelings, and memories, thus fostering individual and collective healing. The journey of relational healing is complemented by the need for self-awareness and acceptance of all emotional experiences, from joy to grief. Understanding that healing is a nonlinear process allows individuals to embrace their emotional complexities while navigating intimate relationships.
We're bringing back a special conversation between Dedeker and Orit Krug! Orit is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist. Orit helps individuals & couples expand their capacity for self-love and intimacy in relationships by processing past trauma stored in the body. Orit is polyamorous, partnered, and a parent to a toddler.
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