
The Happy Wife School
I am a former unhappy wife who emasculated my husband until I had an awakening that I was the problem in my marriage. Now, I teach other married women the journey of finding happiness within so they can evolve as women and wives. I also teach good men how to constructively navigate their wives' emasculating behaviors to rebuild their strength and confidence as men.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
Latest episodes

Jul 16, 2025 • 32min
Is Your Wife Using Her Emotional Past As An Excuse In Your Marriage?
The discussion highlights how past experiences can become excuses for negative behavior in relationships. It emphasizes the need to embrace personal accountability and let go of victim narratives. Key points include five common trauma-based justifications used by women and how both partners can foster personal growth. The conversation encourages listeners to take control of their emotional narratives to build healthier marriages. It's a powerful call to action for women to break free from the limitations of their past.

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Jun 26, 2025 • 40min
Is Your Wife Cold and Mean? This Is Why.
Discover why some wives may feel a repulsion towards their husbands and how this common issue can be addressed. Learn about the importance of self-awareness and accountability in improving marital harmony. The conversation also delves into harmful dynamics like emasculation and offers insights on reclaiming masculinity. Strategies for both women and men are highlighted, aiming to foster healthier relationships and personal growth. Tune in for practical solutions to enhance connection and happiness in marriage.

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Jun 11, 2025 • 44min
Who Is the Real Narcissist in the House
In this engaging discussion, the complexities of narcissism within marriages are unraveled. Good men often face false accusations of narcissism from their wives, prompting a deeper exploration of self-awareness. The podcast highlights ten signs of a narcissistic spouse and offers insights into improving relationship dynamics. Solutions for both men and women are discussed, emphasizing the crucial role of personal happiness and reflection in fostering healthier connections.

Jun 4, 2025 • 43min
Q&A - What Advice Do You Have About Raising Girls to Someday Be Happy Wives...And More
In this episode, I answer a number from listeners ranging from how to raise your daughters to be happy wives some day to how to get your husband to initiate sex. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:48) Topic Introduction(2:56) Q1 - What Advice Do You Have About Raising Girls to Someday Be Happy Wives?(11:32) Q2 - What If You Don't Feel Like a Good Man Anymore?(19:54) Q3 - How Can You Be a Kind, Loving Wife After Being Betrayed By Your Husband's Porn Use?(27:54) Q4 - Is It Easier to Have 'The Dance' With a Younger Wife?(36:34) Q5 - How Can I Inspire My Husband to Initiate More?Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

May 21, 2025 • 36min
How Your Wife's Selfishness Is Destroying Your Marriage
Explore the fascinating dynamics of selfishness in marriage, especially among women. Discover ten common behaviors that can undermine relationships, from neglecting a partner's opinions to failing in financial responsibilities. Yet there's hope: self-awareness and accountability are key. The discussion emphasizes reclaiming strength and confidence while fostering deeper emotional connections. Get insights on how personal growth can lead to healthier marriages and pave the way for genuine love.

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May 7, 2025 • 40min
Why Your Wife Is So Emotionally Dysregulated
Dive into the complexities of emotional dysregulation in marriage. Explore three key reasons why wives may experience emotional ups and downs. Discover insights into the importance of emotional intelligence and personal responsibility. Learn practical solutions for both women and men to help navigate these challenges. This discussion sheds light on common misconceptions while promoting healthier communication in relationships.

Apr 30, 2025 • 40min
Q&A: What to Do When Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex - 3 Different Scenarios
In this episode, I answer three questions from listeners concerning sex and compromise in the bedroom. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:31) Topic Introduction(03:20) Question 1: If a Wife Doesn't Want Sex, Should a Husband Ask for "Something Else"?(15:05) Question 2: Am I Selfish for Expecting Intimacy During "That Time of the Month"? (29:28) Question 3: What Should I Do If My Wife Says She's Asexual?Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Apr 23, 2025 • 33min
Everyone Is Lying to You About Sex and Marriage
In this episode, I discuss the real reason women become interested in sex after marriage.👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:36) Topic Introduction(18:56) 5 Myths Good Men Need to Know About Their Wives and Sex(28:10) The Solution for Men(30:10) The Solution for WomenDisclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Apr 9, 2025 • 43min
What It Means to Be a Wife
In this episode, I discuss what it means to be a wife and the lifestyle changes we must make when we get married. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:37) Topic Introduction(22:31) 5 Lifestyle Changes a Woman Must Make(36:20) Reminder for Women(37:40) The Solution for MenDisclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Apr 2, 2025 • 31min
Q&A: God's Plan for Marriage
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion on the true purpose of marriage and how it serves as a transformative journey for both partners. Explore the challenges of codependency and the importance of individual accountability. The podcast tackles the moral dilemmas surrounding intimacy, including the complexities faced by men in sexless marriages. With real questions from listeners, the conversation redefines marriage as a supportive partnership rather than a battleground.