The Happy Wife School Q&A: Why You Shouldn't Marry Your Girlfriend After 10 Years
Oct 30, 2025
Explore the intriguing dynamics of emotional commitment in relationships. The discussion highlights ten compelling reasons against marrying a girlfriend after a decade, including the view of marriage as a loss of independence and the avoidance of responsibility. Gain insight into why some women might resist deep commitments and how societal expectations shape these choices. Karyn emphasizes the importance of self-examination and personal growth within marriage, offering advice that encourages genuine connection over convenience.
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No Proposal After Ten Years Signals Low Commitment
- If a woman hasn't asked to marry after 10 years, Karyn Seitz argues she likely doesn't want to marry.
- Lack of proposal over a decade signals absence of emotional commitment, not a timing issue.
Marriage Often Lacks Female Emotional Deliberation
- Karyn Seitz says women rarely make a conscious, emotional decision to be wives.
- She claims women focus on what they get from marriage rather than what they must contribute.
Commitment Is Often Aligned With Male Nature
- Karyn Seitz flips the common belief, claiming women often avoid commitment while men seek stability.
- She says commitment aligns with male nature: predictability, long-term vision, and collaboration.