

The Happy Wife School
Karyn Seitz
I am a former unhappy wife who emasculated my husband until I had an awakening that I was the problem in my marriage. Now, I teach other married women the journey of finding happiness within so they can evolve as women and wives. I also teach good men how to constructively navigate their wives' emasculating behaviors to rebuild their strength and confidence as men.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
Episodes
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Apr 30, 2025 • 40min
Q&A: What to Do When Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex - 3 Different Scenarios
In this episode, I answer three questions from listeners concerning sex and compromise in the bedroom. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:31) Topic Introduction(03:20) Question 1: If a Wife Doesn't Want Sex, Should a Husband Ask for "Something Else"?(15:05) Question 2: Am I Selfish for Expecting Intimacy During "That Time of the Month"? (29:28) Question 3: What Should I Do If My Wife Says She's Asexual?Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Apr 23, 2025 • 33min
Everyone Is Lying to You About Sex and Marriage
In this episode, I discuss the real reason women become interested in sex after marriage.👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:36) Topic Introduction(18:56) 5 Myths Good Men Need to Know About Their Wives and Sex(28:10) The Solution for Men(30:10) The Solution for WomenDisclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Apr 9, 2025 • 43min
What It Means to Be a Wife
In this episode, I discuss what it means to be a wife and the lifestyle changes we must make when we get married. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:37) Topic Introduction(22:31) 5 Lifestyle Changes a Woman Must Make(36:20) Reminder for Women(37:40) The Solution for MenDisclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Apr 2, 2025 • 31min
Q&A: God's Plan for Marriage
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion on the true purpose of marriage and how it serves as a transformative journey for both partners. Explore the challenges of codependency and the importance of individual accountability. The podcast tackles the moral dilemmas surrounding intimacy, including the complexities faced by men in sexless marriages. With real questions from listeners, the conversation redefines marriage as a supportive partnership rather than a battleground.

Mar 19, 2025 • 38min
Why Good Men Withdraw From Their Wives
This discussion dives into why good men often withdraw in marriages. It uncovers how women's actions, driven by dissatisfaction and unrealistic expectations, can push their husbands away. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection for both partners in breaking the cycle of blame. Listeners gain insights into fostering personal growth and accountability to enhance marital satisfaction. Solutions for both women and men are explored, promoting healthier dynamics in relationships.

Mar 12, 2025 • 43min
Why Good Men Are Made to Feel Wrong in Their Marriages
The discussion centers on the emotional dynamics in marriages where good men often feel wronged. It highlights five toxic behaviors women may exhibit when feeling this way. The podcast emphasizes the need for self-reflection and effective communication to resolve issues. Solutions are offered for both women and men, promoting confidence and reducing defensiveness in relationships. The conversation sheds light on how underlying feelings can impact marital happiness and encourages deeper understanding to foster better connections.

Mar 5, 2025 • 31min
Why 70% of Second Marriages Fail
In this episode, I discuss the psychology of relationships and why the grass is never greener on the other side of the fence. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here:https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here:https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women:https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:38) Topic Introduction(18:00) 5 Reasons the Grass Isn't Greener(27:35) The Solution Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Feb 19, 2025 • 36min
Why Good Men Stop Trying and Give Up in a Marriage
In this episode, I discuss why married women are constantly moving the goal post for their husbands to make them happy and how good men fall for this trap.👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here:https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here:https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women:https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:35) Topic Introduction(13:04) 5 Reasons Your Wife Keeps Moving the Goalpost(25:16) The Solution for Women(30:26) The Solution for MenDisclaimer:The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Feb 13, 2025 • 28min
The Dance: What A Happy Marriage Really Looks Like
In this episode, I talk with my husband, Adam, about our journey to "the dance" in our marriage.👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here:https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here:https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women:https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:41) Introducing Adam(03:19) Considering the Journey(09:16) A Good Man's Experience of a Happy Wife vs. an Unhappy Wife(11:17) Describing the Dance(16:10) What It's Like When Your Wife Pretends to Be Happy(19:03) Having a Wife Who Lets You Work Through Your Own Stuff(23:15) A Major Difference Between Women and Good MenDisclaimer:The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Feb 5, 2025 • 41min
Q&A: Watch for These 3 Ways Your Wife Plays You
This discussion dives into the emotional factors behind infidelity and manipulation in marriage. It highlights the signs of emotional affairs and offers insights for men on navigating complex dynamics. The conversation emphasizes personal responsibility and self-awareness as tools for healing. Listeners gain a deeper understanding of how past mistakes can be weaponized in relationships, along with strategies to foster healthier communication and growth.