

The Happy Wife School
Karyn Seitz
I am a former unhappy wife who emasculated my husband until I had an awakening that I was the problem in my marriage. Now, I teach other married women the journey of finding happiness within so they can evolve as women and wives. I also teach good men how to constructively navigate their wives' emasculating behaviors to rebuild their strength and confidence as men.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
Episodes
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Oct 30, 2025 • 35min
Q&A: Why You Shouldn't Marry Your Girlfriend After 10 Years
Explore the intriguing dynamics of emotional commitment in relationships. The discussion highlights ten compelling reasons against marrying a girlfriend after a decade, including the view of marriage as a loss of independence and the avoidance of responsibility. Gain insight into why some women might resist deep commitments and how societal expectations shape these choices. Karyn emphasizes the importance of self-examination and personal growth within marriage, offering advice that encourages genuine connection over convenience.

Oct 15, 2025 • 44min
Can You Save A Marriage When Your Wife Has Cheated?
Explore the challenging dynamics of infidelity as a wife struggles with accountability. Discover five vital strategies for men who choose to stay in such relationships. Learn to reclaim your confidence and prioritize personal happiness. Understand why couples counseling may not be the best option and the importance of recognizing signs of potential future infidelity. Ground yourself in reality and understand that change is possible, but only if both partners are willing to take responsibility.

Oct 8, 2025 • 46min
Why Women Feel Entitled to Get Divorced
The discussion dives into the reasons some women feel entitled to divorce, urging reflection on emotional investment in marriage. Menopause is framed more as a potential excuse than a legitimate cause for relationship breakdowns. Karyn explores how self-value impacts commitment and highlights common 'back doors' women use as exits. The conversation emphasizes personal responsibility and emotional regulation as keys to navigating life's challenges, including menopause, without defaulting to separation.

Sep 24, 2025 • 39min
Five Tough Questions You Need to Ask Each Other Before Getting Married
Love isn't enough for a successful marriage; shared values are crucial. Discover five essential questions to assess compatibility before tying the knot. Topics include financial alignment, parenting expectations, and the need for open discussions on political beliefs and spirituality. Learn how a wife's happiness can set the household tone and why transparency about debt is vital. Plus, get insights for both young women and men on preparing for a lasting partnership.

Sep 17, 2025 • 37min
The Five Love Languages: Is It Possible to Have Lasting Love with Your Wife?
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion as the host critiques the concept of The Five Love Languages. Discover how codependency complicates love in relationships and why some women may struggle to feel loved due to low self-worth. Gain practical insights on rebuilding self-care and the importance of authenticity for men in love. This conversation challenges traditional notions of love, offering fresh perspectives that could reshape your understanding of lasting relationships.

Sep 9, 2025 • 36min
Womansplaining: An Unspoken Epidemic
Dive into the intriguing world of 'womansplaining' and its impact on marriage. Discover how the need to be right can inadvertently undermine relationships. Explore how this behavior affects men's confidence and contrasts with 'mansplaining.' The discussion encourages self-awareness among women, promoting healthier marital dynamics. Find solutions for both partners to enhance communication and understanding in their relationships!

Aug 27, 2025 • 30min
The Surprising Secrets Your Wife Holds About Sex
Explore the myths surrounding women's sexuality that can hinder intimacy in marriage. Discover why many women create excuses for disinterest in sex and how societal norms reinforce these beliefs. Learn actionable strategies for overcoming these barriers and enhancing sexual fulfillment. Get insights into a future book aimed at helping women reconnect with their desires, fostering healthier relationships.

Aug 13, 2025 • 29min
Why Your Wife Stopped Enjoying Sex
In this episode, I discuss the underlying issue of married women becoming disinterested in sex so that we can heal and re-engage with sex in our marriages. 👉 Apply for The Happiness Program for Women here: https://bit.ly/4fMvMup👉 Apply for The Marriage Rescue Course for Good Men Only here: https://bit.ly/4fVL3ZI👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: https://bit.ly/3PveLtVFollow Me Here:YouTubeRumbleXTimestamps:(00:00) Podcast Intro(01:39) Topic Introduction(17:23) 5 Reasons Why Women Have So Many Excuses Not to Have Sex(27:07) How to Find the SolutionDisclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Aug 6, 2025 • 32min
Why Good Men Don't Pack Their Bags and Leave a Toxic Woman
Explore the surprising reasons why good men often stay in toxic marriages, from emotional attachments to false hopes. Dive into the dynamics of victim mentality and the importance of accountability in relationships. Gain insights into solutions tailored for both men and women, offering a path toward healing and understanding. This discussion uncovers the complexities of love, loyalty, and the often-overlooked reality of emotional entanglements.

Jul 23, 2025 • 48min
Why Your Wife Is Never Interested in Conflict Resolution
Discover why arguments in marriages often stem from a woman's quest for validation rather than resolution. Uncover the myths of 'healthy arguing' and learn about the emotional needs that drive conflict. The podcast highlights five reasons why women may shy away from resolving disputes and suggests solutions for both partners. It's a deep dive into understanding the dynamics of conflict and the happiness that can emerge from addressing emotional needs effectively.


