

Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication
EJ and Tarah Kerwin
Stronger relationships start here. The Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosted by licensed therapists and partners Tarah & E.J. Kerwin, gives couples the tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and create lasting intimacy.Tarah and EJ share practical strategies, real-life stories, and therapist-guided insights to help you break negative cycles and deepen your connection.Each week you’ll learn how to:Practice couples therapy skills at homeStop fighting and start communicatingRebuild trust after conflict or distanceStrengthen both emotional and physical intimacyHear real couples share struggles and breakthroughsWith over 20,000 monthly downloads, Relationship Renovation is trusted worldwide by couples who want advice that is expert, relatable, and actionable.Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this podcast is your roadmap to transform conflict into connection.Subscribe today—and start building the relationship you’ve been hoping for.
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Feb 14, 2025 • 28min
212 - Building Lasting Love: Tips for Long-Term Relationship Success in a Fast-Paced World
Explore the essentials of building lasting love in today's fast-paced world. Discover how shared vulnerability and teamwork can enhance your relationship. Learn effective conflict resolution techniques and the importance of nurturing core values. Small daily gestures, like leaving notes, deepen emotional bonds. Uncover strategies to prioritize connection amid distractions and develop rituals that foster intimacy. This engaging discussion equips couples with practical tools for lasting success, encouraging them to balance independence with togetherness.

Feb 7, 2025 • 43min
211 - The Intersection of Neuroscience and Therapy in Trauma Recovery with Cody Isabel
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Are you curious how neuroscience can transform mental and emotional health? Ever wondered how AI could predict your mood or emotional state? Want to understand how technology empowers individuals to overcome trauma and improve their relationships?In this enlightening episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin welcome Cody Isabel, founder of the Mind Brain Body Lab and an innovator in the intersection of neuroscience, technology, and mental health. Cody unravels the complexities of trauma bonding and how modern technology can offer practical solutions. Through his unique approach combining cognitive behavioral neuroscience and IFS psychotherapy, Cody addresses how neuroscience can objectively measure mental health, providing actionable insights for those in trauma-induced cycles. He delves into how tools like WHOOP devices, Oura rings, and Apple watches aid in optimizing mental well-being, enabling individuals to understand their body's data and improve their lives.Listen now to discover how Cody uses technology to bridge the gap between heart and science, empowering you to take control of your mental health and strengthen your relationships. Learn from his personal journey through overcoming complex PTSD and his mission to help a billion people worldwide. This episode is packed with eye-opening strategies and transformative discussions that will leave you empowered to make positive changes in your own life. Join us as we explore the profound intersection of technology, neuroscience, and healing on this transformative journey.LEARN MORE ABOUT CODY ISABELFor more detailed support, Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseRelationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Jan 31, 2025 • 33min
210 - Rebuilding Trust: Overcoming Anxious-Avoidant Attachment in Relationships
Explore the challenges of trust and attachment styles in relationships. Discover practical tools to navigate the anxious-avoidant dynamic, emphasizing daily emotional check-ins and transparency agreements. Learn how mutual effort and open dialogue can foster emotional safety. Embrace each partner's unique strengths to enhance connection. Recognize the importance of personal growth and collaborative healing to overcome relationship hurdles. With actionable strategies, couples can rekindle intimacy and build a secure, thriving bond.

Jan 24, 2025 • 47min
209 - Mindfulness and Motherhood: Kelly Smith on Managing Resentment and Finding Peace
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.How can mindfulness and meditation help in managing resentment in relationships?What are the practical steps to begin a meditation practice that aids in emotional clarity?How does resentment manifest in relationships, especially in the context of new parenthood, and what can be done to address it?In this insightful episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin welcome Kelly Smith, founder of Yoga for You and host of top-rated podcasts, Mindful in Minutes Meditation and Meditation Mama. Kelly shares her journey from becoming a mother to navigating deep feelings of resentment, offering listeners invaluable tools to improve their relationships. This episode dives into the intersection of mindfulness and the real-world challenges of managing resentment, a common yet often overlooked barrier to emotional intimacy and connection in couples. Kelly provides actionable strategies and personal anecdotes that resonate deeply with both parents and anyone struggling with the burdens of uncommunicated expectations.Listeners will be captivated by Kelly's unique approach that combines years of mindfulness practice with practical advice for real-life application. Through heartfelt discussion, the episode sheds light on how meditation can rewire the brain to enhance emotional regulation and foster a deeper connection with oneself and one's partner. From understanding the roots of resentment to creating softening moments within a relationship, this episode is packed with transformative insights and easy-to-follow techniques that promise to make a significant positive impact on your emotional well-being and relationship quality. Don't miss out on this engaging and informative conversation designed to help you achieve emotional and intimate fulfillment with your partner. Listen now for a transformative experience!Meet Kelly - Yoga for YouVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsRead lessSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Jan 17, 2025 • 31min
208 - Enhancing Intimacy: Rewriting Your Relationship Story
Explore the secrets to enhancing intimacy in relationships with innovative tools and meaningful communication. Discover how stress and life changes can challenge connections and learn practical steps to overcome these hurdles. Hear personal stories and reflective exercises that help couples rewrite their intimacy narratives, fostering emotional safety. Dive into navigating parenthood while maintaining a strong bond and setting actionable intimacy goals. This discussion is a treasure trove for any couple looking to reignite the spark and deepen their connection!

Jan 10, 2025 • 38min
207 - Navigating Grief: Healing and Empathy in Relationships
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Are you and your partner struggling to navigate the turbulent waters of grief?How can couples support each other when one feels overwhelmed by loss?What are the best strategies to maintain a healthy relationship amidst personal despair?In this heartfelt episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with mental health expert Carolyn Fiolek-Winson to explore the profound impact of grief on relationships. Drawing from her personal experiences of profound loss and her expertise in grief counseling, Carolyn shares invaluable insights on how couples can reconnect, communicate empathetically, and find balance during tumultuous times. From coping strategies to the importance of humor, this episode delves deep into the bittersweet nature of grief, the unexpected ways it manifests, and the emotionally supportive steps partners can take to heal together. Tune in for practical advice, relatable stories, and resources designed to strengthen your union amid life's inevitable losses.Connect with CarolynVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Jan 3, 2025 • 22min
206 - Crafting Intentions for a Stronger Relationship in 2025
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Are you looking for ways to feel more emotionally and intimately connected with your partner in 2025?Do you want to create actionable, shared goals to strengthen your relationship?Are you curious about navigating potential challenges while setting intentions with your significant other?In this episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin guide you through setting meaningful intentions together as a couple. Reflecting on the victories and struggles of the past year, they provide a three-step framework to help you dream big and co-create intentions that foster deeper emotional and physical connection. Listen in as they share personal anecdotes, tips on overcoming obstacles, and the importance of consistency over perfection. This episode is packed with valuable insights designed to help you and your partner grow closer and thrive in the new year. Don't miss out on their practical advice and the inspiring story of how setting intentions can transform your relationship!Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Dec 27, 2024 • 36min
205 - Creating Emotional Connection: Marriage365 Insights with Casey and Meygan Caston
Join Casey and Meygan Caston, the founders of Marriage365, as they share valuable insights on enhancing emotional intimacy in relationships. They discuss their new book on connecting questions that encourage meaningful conversations. The Castons reflect on their parenting challenges and the importance of balancing spontaneity with structure. They emphasize effective communication tools like weekly marriage meetings that reduce conflicts while promoting growth. Discover how curiosity and patience can transform disagreements into opportunities for deeper connections.

Dec 20, 2024 • 15min
204 - Holiday Special: Creating Deeper Connections with Your Partner
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.What is the foundational element for a happy, healthy relationship?How can couples create a deeper emotional and intimate connection?What practical steps can you take to improve your relationship during the holiday season?In this heartwarming holiday-themed episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin unwrap the ultimate gift for couples: the gift of connection. With cozy visuals and thoughtful insights, they delve into the importance of belonging and how it manifests in healthy, fulfilling relationships. Tune in to hear how the Kerwins use their own experiences to provide a relatable and actionable roadmap for other couples looking to strengthen their emotional and intimate bonds. From discussing the impact of difficult conversations to revealing how individual work can prioritize relationship health, this episode is packed with valuable tools and heartfelt anecdotes.Listeners will also learn about the transformative power of the Relationship Renovation at Home program, a structured way for couples to experience weekly growth together. As you prepare for the holidays, discover how small yet significant changes can build confidence, improve communication, and promote a sense of unity within families. Whether you’re at home sipping on your favorite beverage or on the go, this episode promises to inspire you to embrace the spirit of connection and make your relationship resilient and joyful. Don't miss out on this insightful episode that can bring lasting positive change to your love life.Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Dec 13, 2024 • 56min
203 - Rebuilding Trust and Emotional Safety: Whitney and Derek's Story
Join a heartfelt conversation as a couple, Derek and Whitney, share their transformative journey from the brink of divorce to rediscovering love and trust. Explore the impact of personal history, including Derek's military background, on their relationship dynamics. Discover the crucial role of therapy in building emotional safety and enhancing intimacy. The discussion emphasizes vulnerability, the importance of small acts of love, and practical advice for couples navigating their own relationship challenges.


