

Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication
EJ and Tarah Kerwin
Stronger relationships start here. The Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosted by licensed therapists and partners Tarah & E.J. Kerwin, gives couples the tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and create lasting intimacy.Tarah and EJ share practical strategies, real-life stories, and therapist-guided insights to help you break negative cycles and deepen your connection.Each week you’ll learn how to:Practice couples therapy skills at homeStop fighting and start communicatingRebuild trust after conflict or distanceStrengthen both emotional and physical intimacyHear real couples share struggles and breakthroughsWith over 20,000 monthly downloads, Relationship Renovation is trusted worldwide by couples who want advice that is expert, relatable, and actionable.Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this podcast is your roadmap to transform conflict into connection.Subscribe today—and start building the relationship you’ve been hoping for.
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Dec 6, 2024 • 32min
202 - Breaking Barriers: Communicating About Physical and Emotional Intimacy, Part 4 in Intimacy Series
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.How can couples differentiate between acceptance and resignation in their relationship struggles?What role does curiosity and empathy play in overcoming feelings of rejection?How can open and vulnerable conversations improve both physical and emotional intimacy?Join hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin on the fourth part of the "Intimacy Balance" series, where they delve deep into the complexities of maintaining both physical and emotional intimacy in long-term relationships. In this episode, the Kerwins explore how acceptance, rather than resignation, can transform your relationship, helping you better understand your partner’s challenges without feeling rejected. Through their candid discussions, Tarah and EJ share personal anecdotes and professional insights, offering valuable strategies for fostering empathy and curiosity about each other's experiences. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their intimate connection and navigate sensitive conversations with authenticity and grace.This episode also tackles the inevitable changes in physical intimacy following significant life events such as having children, postpartum recovery, and menopause. Tarah and EJ emphasize the importance of non-sexual affection and sustaining open communication to avoid feelings of isolation and loneliness. By modeling vulnerability themselves, the hosts illustrate how addressing these often unspoken issues can relieve pressure, decrease stress, and ultimately lead to a more genuine and fulfilling connection. Don't miss out on actionable advice and heartfelt wisdom that can help rejuvenate your relationship, whether you're struggling with body image issues, emotional disconnect, or the balancing act of busy lives. Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Nov 29, 2024 • 43min
201 - Overcoming Emotional Barriers: Building Intimacy through Connection and Communication in Relationships Pt 3
Discover how emotional barriers can strain relationships and the keys to overcoming them. The discussion delves into the importance of vulnerability and trust, revealing how genuine communication can deepen connections. Learn the power of empathy and active listening, along with strategies for handling emotional baggage. The episode emphasizes regular emotional check-ins to maintain intimacy and offers insights on building a safe space for open dialogue. Perfect for couples wanting to enhance their emotional bonds!

Nov 22, 2024 • 34min
200 - Unlocking Deeper Connections: Emotional and Physical Intimacy in Relationships Pt 2
Dive into the fascinating world of emotional and physical intimacy as hosts explore how vulnerability can resolve conflicts and strengthen relationships. Discover the variety of non-sexual physical intimacies and their role in building deeper connections. The conversation highlights the significance of nurturing spiritual and intellectual bonds for a balanced relationship. Uncover practical tips for enhancing intimacy amidst busy schedules and learn how trust and open communication can lead to unbreakable partnerships.

Nov 15, 2024 • 34min
199 - Mastering the Balance: Emotional and Physical Intimacy in Relationships Pt 1
Discover the fascinating interplay between emotional and physical intimacy in relationships. The hosts explore how different types of physical touch can deepen connections, from affectionate gestures to sexual intimacy. They emphasize the importance of emotional safety and vulnerability as cornerstones of lasting bonds. Tune in to learn how consistency and authenticity strengthen these connections, while simple acts of touch can significantly enhance feelings of security and care between partners. A must-listen for couples seeking deeper connections!

Nov 8, 2024 • 46min
198 - Love, Business, and Balance: Wisdom from Couplepreneurs Kyle and Ariel Tresch
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Do you struggle to balance your personal and professional life with your partner?Looking for practical communication strategies to keep both romance and revenue thriving?We sit down with entrepreneurial power duo Kyle and Ariel Tresch to discuss the unique challenges and triumphs of running a business as a couple. From their early days of dating in middle school to navigating the "anti-honeymoon stage" post-marriage while managing separate businesses, Kyle and Ariel share their inspiring journey of love and entrepreneurship. Listeners will gain insights into essential communication strategies that separate critical thinking from personal criticism and discover why a shared vision is crucial for the alignment and growth of both personal relationships and businesses.As business strategists and hosts of "The Couplepreneur Show," Kyle and Ariel provide invaluable tips on dividing tasks in ways that cater to different personality types and energy levels. They delve into the importance of setting clear expectations, maintaining a united front, and fostering a positive team culture. Whether you're an entrepreneurial couple or simply looking to strengthen your relationship while pursuing joint goals, this episode offers practical advice and relatable experiences that will motivate you to invest in both your love and your livelihood.Couplepreneurs on InstagramVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Nov 1, 2024 • 32min
197 - Transforming Money Conflicts into Financial Harmony for Couples
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.In this episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin welcome financial coach Austin Black, host of The Heart of Money podcast, to explore how couples can strengthen their relationship through better money management. From handling preexisting debt before marriage to preventing financial disagreements, this conversation is packed with actionable strategies to build trust and financial harmony.Austin shares his “Six Secrets to Healthy Money Conversations” and practical resources, including free masterclasses, to guide couples in creating a unified financial vision. With real-life stories and insights, EJ and Tarah add their own experiences, making this an engaging listen for couples ready to tackle finances as a team.Tune in for tools, tips, and inspiration to transform financial challenges into opportunities for deeper connection!Freedom Financial CoachingHeart of Money PodcastVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Oct 25, 2024 • 29min
196 - Reignite Your Relationship: Cultivating Curiosity for Stronger Connections
Discover how curiosity can reignite the spark in relationships! Explore actionable tips to deepen emotional and physical intimacy. Learn the importance of daily check-ins and thoughtful questions that foster connection. Hear personal stories illustrating the impact of empathy. Uncover structured methods to break free from routine and ignite meaningful conversations. With practical tools and strategies, couples can cultivate curiosity and keep their relationship thriving. Tune in for insights that can transform your partnership!

Oct 18, 2024 • 32min
195 - Path to Lasting Love: Tools for Relationship Success
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.What are the benefits of practicing vulnerability and emotional support in a relationship?How can structured methods and continuous effort lead to long-term relationship improvement?In this compelling episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ delve into the nuances of fostering a healthy and resilient relationship through structured methods. They share anecdotes reflecting their journey from reactive patterns to validating and supportive interactions. By continuously practicing self-awareness and communication skills, they’ve managed to turn contentious situations into opportunities for growth and unity.Listeners will be inspired by the hosts' candid discussion about overcoming significant challenges, including anxiety, postpartum depression, and financial stress. The episode also sheds light on the power of letting go of control and embracing vulnerability to foster a supportive and loving partnership. Tarah and EJ emphasize that continuous effort and mutual commitment are the keys to a fulfilling relationship.Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Oct 11, 2024 • 18min
194 - Reddit AITA Cheating and Friendship: Can They Coexist in a Healthy Relationship?
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Can a relationship survive after a partner crosses a fidelity boundary?What steps should be taken if a significant other forms an intimate connection outside of the marriage?How can partners rebuild trust and set boundaries to protect their relationship?In this compelling episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin plunge into the intriguing world of Reddit's AITA (Am I the Asshole) subreddit. They tackle a listener-submitted story involving infidelity and the emotional turmoil that follows. Amidst personal sharing and professional insights, Tarah and EJ dissect the complexities of setting boundaries, rebuilding trust, and addressing unmet needs within a relationship. Dive deep as they answer the pressing question: "Am I the asshole for not wanting my wife to remain friends with the person she cheated on me with?"Listeners will be captivated by the relatable dynamics discussed, from dealing with transitions to understanding the cracks that can develop in any partnership. With a blend of empathy and expertise, Tara and EJ advise on how to navigate these difficult situations to foster emotional and intimate connections. Tune in to gain valuable tools and perspectives that can make a substantial positive impact on your relationship, whether you're currently facing similar issues or simply seeking to strengthen your bond. Don't miss out on this insightful episode that promises to enlighten and empower.Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Oct 4, 2024 • 42min
193 - Dr. Sara Brungard on Breaking OCD Cycles in Love and Life
Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Are you struggling to understand OCD's impact on relationships? Curious about the nuances between anxiety and OCD? Want to learn effective treatment strategies for managing OCD? In this episode, hosts Tarah and EJ sit down with OCD expert Dr. Sara Brungard to delve deep into the complexities of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and its far-reaching effects on relationships. Sarah emphasizes the critical role of understanding family history during intake to uncover undiagnosed conditions like OCD. She walks us through major OCD themes such as harm, sexual intrusive thoughts, contamination, checking compulsions, and relationship OCD. This comprehensive discussion sheds light on the misconceptions about OCD, emphasizing the importance of targeting compulsions rather than anxiety in therapy. Sarah introduces listeners to the transformative potential of Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) therapy, which can help individuals resist compulsions and regain control over their lives.Listeners will find invaluable insights into avoiding common therapeutic mistakes and learning how to properly support a partner with OCD. Sarah also shares engaging stories from her experience at the Calm OCD centers located in Scottsdale, Tucson, and Sandy, Utah. Whether you're a mental health professional, a partner of someone with OCD, or someone seeking a better understanding of OCD's impact on relationships, this episode is a treasure trove of knowledge and practical advice. Don't miss out on this opportunity to enhance your understanding and help transform the way OCD is managed in relationships.Learn More about Dr. Sara Brungard and CalmOCDVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands


