

Bare Marriage
Sheila Gregoire
Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!
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Apr 20, 2023 • 56min
Episode 188: What We're Fighting For: A Glimpse 20 Years Down the Road
Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our new book She Deserves Better:https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon!https://patreon.com/baremarriageThe Instagram Reel from 247 Marriage:https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnetOgDhM1S/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_linkThe podcast where we discussed "Girls Talk Too Much":https://baremarriage.com/2023/03/do-women-talk-more-than-men-podcast/The podcast where we were talking about how boys had to be superheroes:https://baremarriage.com/2023/04/podcast-on-nice-guy-syndrome-and-boundaries/If you're going to pull something out of your butt, it's probably crap merch:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/out-your-butt/Anti-Rape Raccoon Merch:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/rabid-racoon/Other Merch:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Apr 13, 2023 • 59min
Episode 187: 'Nice Guy' Syndrome & Drawing Boundaries: What Girls Need to Know
Send us a textTHINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCASTOur new book She Deserves BetterSupport us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon!Article on the problem with “Nice Guy” behavior when it’s rooted in entitlementOur episode of Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle (the interesting parts are from 30 minutes on)Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Apr 6, 2023 • 54min
Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes
Send us a textThings mentioned in our Podcast!Our Patreon! Thank you for supporting us and helping us fund our research. You can join us for as little as $5 a month!Jasmine Holmes’ new book Never Cast Out! Plus find her on Instagram. Jasmine on our podcast a few months ago talking about her book Carved in Ebony.Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it and get access to our bonuses. Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Mar 30, 2023 • 1h 8min
Episode 185: Trauma, EMDR, and 'Himpathy' ft. Jenna Mountain
Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month!Our new book She Deserves Better! Send in your pre-order receipts for lots of pre-order bonuses. Study on Himpathy on what makes people sympathize with perpetrators rather than victimsJenna Mountain's counseling center Aspen HausSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Mar 23, 2023 • 1h 13min
Episode 184: Why do WOMEN also push the Modesty Messages? plus Why Churches Need to Recognize Date Rape
Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Pre-Order She Deserves Better and join our launch team! The Launch Team closes on Tuesday, March 28, so get your pre-order receipts in now!Help support our research, plus get access to unfiltered podcasts, an amazing Facebook group, and more, by joining our PatreonLast week's podcast where we looked at the problems with one of Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions around modestyA podcast where we walked through another issue with Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions where she spreads rape culture myths, and a post that lays out her survey question that enables date rapeSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Mar 16, 2023 • 59min
Episode 183: What Modesty Messages Did to Us
Send us a textTHINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCASTShe Deserves Better–our new book! Preorder on Amazon, or here are other places to get it (Baker Books has 40% off and free shipping within the U.S.!).Join the launch team if you’re willing to write a review!On Modesty: We shouldn’t sacrifice teens’ well-being for adult men’s comfortSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Mar 9, 2023 • 52min
Episode 182: 'Do Girls Talk Too Much?' Another claim that was made up
Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it now (it helps us a ton), and then on Monday I'll give you information on how you can join the launch team. Sign up for my email list so you don't miss out on joining the launch teamA study of gender differences in children and number of words spoken (hint, not much of a difference)An article explaining the issue of faulty claims, and giving the results of a study inspired by these faulty claims.The Mendelberg and Karpowitz study of gendered speech in mixed groups with decision-makingSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Mar 2, 2023 • 55min
Episode 181: How Does Dating Affect Teens? Let's look at the data!
Send us a textShould we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women!Things Mentioned in the Podcast:Our new book She Deserves Better, which launches April 18! It helps us immensely when you pre-order!Sign up for my email list to be notified about how you can join the launch team!Our book The Great Sex RescueThe University of Georgia study on teens who don’t dateSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Feb 23, 2023 • 55min
Episode 180: Exodus Cry: What We Need to Know about Sex Trafficking
Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon that helps support our podcast! You can join for as little as $5 a month! There's unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group (it's really active!), merch, and more!Exodus Cry. Check out the organization and see what they're doing!See how to get involved (it's easy!). Join the fight against PornHub, sign petitions, read their articles, and more!Watch Exodus Cry's documentaries. They're so well done and hard hitting.Follow Benjamin and Exodus Cry on Instagram!Our podcast last week with the woman who was put under church discipline when she wanted to get to safety from marital rape. Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Feb 16, 2023 • 1h 7min
Episode 179: Why Did a Church Put a Marital Rape Victim under Church Discipline?
Send us a textToday I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage.TRIGGER WARNINGIn the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to occur, so that people could fast forward if they chose to. But the description is horrendous. I wanted people to know what she was facing, and to understand her pastor knew this too.NOTE ON NEURODIVERGENCEPart of this woman’s story, she believes, is her husband’s lack of diagnosis for autism, which she believes contributed to his inability and unwillingness to see things from her perspective.Plenty of autistic people are able to relate emotionally with their spouses, even if they do it in different ways. And they value connecting.What is shared in this podcast is merely her story, and we understand that it is not the case with many neurodivergent people, who can have loving marriages.THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCASTOur new Fixed It for You Workbook! It’s selling so well, and it’s still on for just $4.99–until Monday!The marital rape posts in our original series: The 2 kinds of rape; what to do if you’re a victim of marital rape; 5 next steps if you realize you’ve coerced your wife into sexKate Shellnutt’s article in Christianity Today about John MacArthur’s church’s further abuse of women, and Julie Roys’ account about Eileen Gray that broke the story.My commentary from last week about the John MacArthur situationSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.


