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Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and fund our ongoing projectsThe Great Sex Rescue, our book that showed the issues with a lot of evangelical teaching about sex, based on our survey of 20,000 womenOur Merch: Check out our Be a Biblical Woman collectionThe other times we've talked about Josh Howerton, specifically with Josh Howerton plagiarizing others; and Josh Howerton misrepresenting research. Download our rubric of healthy sexuality teaching that we used to score the books--and this Instagram Live!Listen in to the podcast where we talked about how other authors have responded to The Great Sex Rescue, including the Tim and Kathy Keller anecdoteSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Our patrons have helped us have the time and flexibility to write She Deserves Better (out in April), along with the stats for The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex. Right now Joanna is working on two different peer-reviewed papers, and our next big project we'd like to fund is creating a database of good and bad books. You can support us for as little as $5 a month, and get behind-the-scenes access! Support us here. Our Merch! Check out our merch, including our Be a Biblical Woman merch, and you'll help support us too!Our Marriage Misdiagnosis Series. Start here, and then you can follow the links on the bottom of the posts for everything else.Our rubric and scorecard of how the different books fared, including The Power of a Praying Wife.My Instagram post of John Piper's horrible advice. Follow me there for more Fixed it For Yous!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Natalie’s Flying Free site, and Natalie’s awesome Facebook Page, Instagram, and YouTube channel. Plus listen in to her podcast!Natalie’s book “Is It Me”?The terrible books Natalie mentioned: Our post about Created To Be His Helpmeet; Julie Anne Smith’s review of The Excellent Wife by Martha PeaceThe book that helped Natalie: Leslie Vernick’s Emotionally Destructive MarriagePatrick Weaver’s I Hate Divorce t-shirtsPatrick Weaver on the Malachi verse that is too often translated “God hates divorce”My post on how marriage was made for us, not us for marriageSupport us on Patreon! Or check out our awesome merch!Our Marriage Misdiagnosis series! My mental load series: With thanksSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textShould pastors be allowed to plagiarize in their sermons?I’ll be frank: I think evangelicalism has a problem with celebrity, as we talked about on last week’s podcast. And I think plagiarism is part of that celebrity. It’s rampant among pastors and authors in evangelicalism, and it allows people to give a false sense of themselves to others to boost their status. It needs to stop.Links to things mentioned:Scot McKnight's book A Church Called TOVScot McKnight's New Testament Everyday Bible Study SeriesScot McKnight's previous podcast with usWarren Throckmorton on Mark Driscoll's apparent plagiarismDavid Dzimianski on Tim Keller's apparent plagiarismAaron New on Tim Clinton's history of PlagiarismChristine Caine's plagiarismJosh Howerton's Twitter ThreadsOriginal Twitter Thread (long) about how plagiarism by pastors is fineMore recent Tweet about ethics of using someone's material without naming them if you disagree with themArticles on Controversy with Josh Howerton and Andy WoodArticle Explaining Andy Wood controversy with Mark DriscollAndy Stanley's book The New Rules of Love, Sex and DatingYouTube sermon where Andy Stanley goes over the central points of this book, which Josh Howerton seems to have used(start at around 22:00)Steven Furtick sermon with "two halves don't make a whole"(start around 6:30)Josh Howerton sermon where he says arguing with him is like arguing with God(start around 12:20)Note: The sermon we're referring to I originally saw because it was listed on this page. That sermon has since been removed. It is the only sermon from 2022 that can no longer be found on the Lakepointe Church site, on YouTube, and on their podcast archives. It was there a few weeks ago; it's now gone. I have no idea why, unless he got wiSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textEvangelicalism has a problem with celebrity culture.I mean, everyone has a problem with celebrity culture. But it can be worse in the church because we’re supposed to put Jesus front and centre, and too oten we’re protecting celebrity and ignoring the way of Christ. Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to an awesome Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more. Or if you don’t want to support long term, considering leaving something in our tip jar! Katelyn Beaty’s book Celebrities for Jesus! Plus find Katelyn on Twitter ! That’s where I got to know her.Our evidence-based courses: The Orgasm Course and the Boost Your Libido course and the Honeymoon Prep Course!To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textOne of the most frequent questions I’ve had since The Great Sex Rescue was published has been: “Have any of the authors responded to your critiques?”People want to know–has anyone owned their mistakes and made changes?And the quick answer is no. I wanted to have a central place where I can show you what the authors who HAVE said something have said. And I need to say something. This is a personal podcast.Links to things mentioned:The Great Sex Rescue Download our rubric and scorecard! The blog post where I include links for everything I talked about, plus write out the email we sent to Gary ThomasTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textWe’ve got some wonderful inspiring stories to share with you today–plus a new research study with implications for dating.  Today Rebecca and I tell you about two modern day heroes, plus two young women using the gifts God gave them to try to change their world! Then we analyze that Psychology Today article we told you about–the rise of lonely, single men. Listen in!Links to things mentioned:Patreon Our Whole Story Sex & Puberty courseAn article about Chief Theresa KachimondotoThe All the Books YouTube videoThe Rise of Lonely, Single MenPew Research Study they citeStudy on loneliness in menOur emotional maturity seriesTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textTime for another hero of the faith! Well, three, actually!This month we’re telling amazing stories of women that God used in history to fight against injustice and show that God values women. This week Kristin Kobes Du Mez, the author of Jesus and John Wayne, joins us to talk about her biography of Katharine Bushnell. Links to things mentioned:The New Gospel for Women: Katharine Bushnell and the Challenge of Christian FeminismOn Purpose: Understanding God's Freedom for Women Through Scripture by Julie Zine ColemanThe Great Sex RescueTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textHave you ever heard the name Josephine Butler?If you were alive in London in 1880 you likely would have. In her time, she was as well-known as Florence Nightingale, but history has largely forgotten her.Joanna and I sat down and read Josephine Butler: Patron Saint of Prostitutes, and discussed it today! Links to things mentioned:Josephine Butler, Patron Saint of Prostitutes (it's a great read for the summer!)Join our Patreon and support the podcast transcription--and all the research we're doing!Check out our merch!If you haven't read The Great Sex Rescue yet, you need to. It seriously will change your life. And then buy it for a pastor or counselor you know!To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textWhat if your wife has been taught toxic things about sex–and you don’t even realize it?Links to things mentioned:The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book, that looks at how harmful some of these messages have beenSupport our research by joining our Patreon group! Even for as  little as $5 or $8 a month!Our "Do All Men Struggle with Lust" podcastOur open letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect (at the bottom of this post is links to all of the other things we've said about this book)The study on complaining and maladaptive worry and statusTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.