Bare Marriage

Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens

Dec 1, 2022

55:46

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Porn Addictions and Sexual Sin - How Do You Rebuild Safety?

04:32

How Do You Deal With a Master Manipulator?

03:34

The Opposite of Addiction Isn't Sobriety

02:46

Introduction

2min

You Just Hate Sex, but You Just Don't Want to Get Better

2min

Dogs in a Cage - Classic Conditioning

2min

Learned Helplessness Turned Into Learning Hopelessness

3min

The Helviz's Experiment

2min

What Happened to the Second Word?

2min

Learned Helplessness - I'm a Failure

3min

What Is Your Body Not Wanting?

2min

Be a Biblical Woman Merchandise at the Bear Marriage Store

2min

10.

Is She Not Orgasming?

1min

11.

Do You Have Sex When It Hurts?

2min

12.

Is Your Husband Telling You You Need to Initiate Sex?

3min

13.

How to Stop Having Bad Sex in Your Marriage

2min

14.

Porn Addictions and Sexual Sin - How Do You Rebuild Safety?

5min

15.

How Do I Know if My Husband Is Trying to Get Better?

3min

16.

The Opposite of Addiction Isn't Sobriety

3min

17.

How Do You Deal With a Master Manipulator?

4min

18.

Are You Still Relapsing?

2min

19.

Do You Ever See People Blaming Their Spouse or Externalizing All the Reasons?

4min

20.

Counseling Couples When He Turns Outside of the Marriage

3min

21.

Couples Counseling - What Are Some Red Flags?

2min

22.

Is Your Spouse Doing the Hard Work?

2min

23.

I'm Too Traumatized and This Is Too Much

2min

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Links to things mentioned:

Our Merch–mugs, t-shirts, canvas wall hangings and more that are great for Christmas gifts and stocking stuffers. Check out our Love & Respect collection, our Biblical Womanhood collection, and especially our Be a Biblical Woman collection!
Our Patreon–join for as little as $5 a month and help support our research!
A brief synopsis of the learned helplessness experiments with dogs, and then a run down on the learned helplessness experiment in the classroom. Plus you can watch a video of the classroom experiments here! (great to watch with teens).
Our orgasm course for women struggling with orgasm
Sam Tielemans’ couples counseling
Our upcoming book She Deserves Better–you can pre-order it now!

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