Bare Marriage

Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens

Dec 1, 2022
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1
Introduction
00:00 • 2min
2
You Just Hate Sex, but You Just Don't Want to Get Better
02:16 • 2min
3
Dogs in a Cage - Classic Conditioning
04:01 • 2min
4
Learned Helplessness Turned Into Learning Hopelessness
05:46 • 3min
5
The Helviz's Experiment
08:52 • 2min
6
What Happened to the Second Word?
10:22 • 2min
7
Learned Helplessness - I'm a Failure
12:28 • 3min
8
What Is Your Body Not Wanting?
15:51 • 2min
9
Be a Biblical Woman Merchandise at the Bear Marriage Store
17:28 • 2min
10
Is She Not Orgasming?
19:12 • 1min
11
Do You Have Sex When It Hurts?
20:41 • 2min
12
Is Your Husband Telling You You Need to Initiate Sex?
23:10 • 3min
13
How to Stop Having Bad Sex in Your Marriage
25:53 • 2min
14
Porn Addictions and Sexual Sin - How Do You Rebuild Safety?
28:19 • 5min
15
How Do I Know if My Husband Is Trying to Get Better?
32:51 • 3min
16
The Opposite of Addiction Isn't Sobriety
35:28 • 3min
17
How Do You Deal With a Master Manipulator?
38:14 • 4min
18
Are You Still Relapsing?
41:48 • 2min
19
Do You Ever See People Blaming Their Spouse or Externalizing All the Reasons?
43:39 • 4min
20
Counseling Couples When He Turns Outside of the Marriage
47:10 • 3min
21
Couples Counseling - What Are Some Red Flags?
49:45 • 2min
22
Is Your Spouse Doing the Hard Work?
51:53 • 2min
23
I'm Too Traumatized and This Is Too Much
54:02 • 2min