Bare Marriage

Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens

Dec 1, 2022
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INSIGHT

How Learned Helplessness Develops

  • Learned helplessness occurs when repeated aversive events teach someone that nothing they do changes outcomes.
  • Learned hopelessness follows when they stop trying even after the environment changes and escape becomes possible.
ANECDOTE

The Classroom Anagram Example

  • The classroom anagram experiment split students into two hidden groups with easy and impossible words to create learned helplessness in one group.
  • The group given solvable items stayed engaged and solved a later hard anagram more often than the discouraged group.
INSIGHT

Sexual Triggers Become Conditioned Bells

  • Sexual triggers can become conditioned warning bells that produce fight/flight/freeze responses before intimacy.
  • Subconscious statistical learning pairs cues (touch, date bids) with feared outcomes, causing aversion even when conscious mind disagrees.
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