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Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens

Bare Marriage

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Is She Not Orgasming?

Every time you have sex that she doesn't orgasm, you're reinforcing it. That is the bell and the zap. And so when he comes in and says, by the way, let's spend an hour on foreplay, that's a threat to her. She just wants sex to be open with as fast as possible.

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