Send us a textWe’ve got some wonderful inspiring stories to share with you today–plus a new research study with implications for dating.  Today Rebecca and I tell you about two modern day heroes, plus two young women using the gifts God gave them to try to change their world! Then we analyze that Psychology Today article we told you about–the rise of lonely, single men. Listen in!Links to things mentioned:Patreon Our Whole Story Sex & Puberty courseAn article about Chief Theresa KachimondotoThe All the Books YouTube videoThe Rise of Lonely, Single MenPew Research Study they citeStudy on loneliness in menOur emotional maturity seriesTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textTime for another hero of the faith! Well, three, actually!This month we’re telling amazing stories of women that God used in history to fight against injustice and show that God values women. This week Kristin Kobes Du Mez, the author of Jesus and John Wayne, joins us to talk about her biography of Katharine Bushnell. Links to things mentioned:The New Gospel for Women: Katharine Bushnell and the Challenge of Christian FeminismOn Purpose: Understanding God's Freedom for Women Through Scripture by Julie Zine ColemanThe Great Sex RescueTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textHave you ever heard the name Josephine Butler?If you were alive in London in 1880 you likely would have. In her time, she was as well-known as Florence Nightingale, but history has largely forgotten her.Joanna and I sat down and read Josephine Butler: Patron Saint of Prostitutes, and discussed it today! Links to things mentioned:Josephine Butler, Patron Saint of Prostitutes (it's a great read for the summer!)Join our Patreon and support the podcast transcription--and all the research we're doing!Check out our merch!If you haven't read The Great Sex Rescue yet, you need to. It seriously will change your life. And then buy it for a pastor or counselor you know!To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textWhat if your wife has been taught toxic things about sex–and you don’t even realize it?Links to things mentioned:The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book, that looks at how harmful some of these messages have beenSupport our research by joining our Patreon group! Even for as  little as $5 or $8 a month!Our "Do All Men Struggle with Lust" podcastOur open letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect (at the bottom of this post is links to all of the other things we've said about this book)The study on complaining and maladaptive worry and statusTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned: Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/And his book The Sexually Healthy Man: https://amzn.to/3p4JmyFBenjamin Young's Twitter Thread: https://twitter.com/BJYoung1990/status/1353521004073652224Benjamin Young's ministry Guard the Gift: https://guardthegift.com/The Great Sex Rescue: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/great-sex-rescue/Our Previous Podcast on Marital Rape and Consent: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:The Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com4 Stages of Porn Recovery: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/4-stages-of-porn-recovery-what-porn-recovery-in-marriage-looks-like/ The Bell-curve Modesty Rule: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/new-look-at-christian-modesty-guidelines/The Whole Story: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-whole-story/The Great Sex Rescue: https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textUnconditional respect isn’t a thing.And yet we’re often told that men need unconditional respect, just like women need unconditional love.Links to things mentioned: Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire Dr. Cynthia Long WestfallPaul and Gender: Reclaiming the Apostle's Vision for Men and Women in ChristThe Great Sex RescuePsychology Today article To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Topics discussed include enhancing women's libido in marriages, communication and sexual satisfaction, vaginismus, effects of negative sex messaging, navigating purity culture as an autistic person, men's porn addiction impact on relationships, and addressing toxicity and libido issues in relationships.

Send us a textRecently John Piper had a podcast telling a woman how to deal with a “harsh” husband.It was atrocious advice–especially since women in emotionally abusive relationships would listen to this advice and think that it pertained to them (since most women in abusive relationships would describe their husbands as harsh).Links to things mentioned:John Piper article on harsh husbandsOur original Facebook Live (expanded content from this podcast, extra 13 minutes on end)Our article talking about John Piper and harsh husbandsDr. Alison Cook on Turning the Other CheekSign up for our emails!Our Merch!Gretchen Baskerville on the effect of divorce on kids if husbands are abusiveTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a textLet’s face the fact that fundamentalist Christianity in North America is basically a sex cult.That’s Alyssa Wakefield’s conclusion in Part 2 of her story on the Bare Marriage podcast!Links to things mentioned:Part 1 of Alyssa's storyWendy Snyder's FREE Parenting Workshop RegistrationTraumaMAMAS appSarah McDugal:Instagram FacebookNatalie Hoffman's book Is It Me?To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.