After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

By popular demand, Kristin + Tyler are answering your burning questions...and yes, it’s as chaotic, funny, and heartwarming as you’d expect. From how many drinks is too many to how they navigate parenting, marriage, and leftover fights, nothing’s off-limits. They get real about raising a neurodivergent family, resentment, and finding connection through the mess. There’s laughter, honesty, and a surprising amount of wisdom tucked between jokes about cup holders.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Visit www.expressable.com/BEDTIME to find the perfect speech therapist and get started on your child's communication journey.Simplify your kids' mealtimes. Go to: littlespoon.com/BIGLITTLEFEELINGS and enter our code BIGLITTLEFEELINGS at checkout to get 50% OFF your first Little Spoon order.Explore the new Peloton Cross Training Tread+ at onepeloton.com.Head to drinkAG1.com/BLF to get a FREE Welcome Kit, including a bottle of Vitamin D and FREE AG1 Travel Packs, when you first subscribe! Visit perelelhealth.com. New customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with the code BEDTIME.Visit www.functionhealth.com/feelings or use gift code FEELINGS100 at sign-up to own your health. The first 1000 to join using our link get a $100 credit toward their membership. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Deena is back and she’s deep in the newborn trenches. From mastitis and clogged ducts to guilt, shame, and the constant hum of the pump, she opens up about the raw, unfiltered reality of feeding her baby and trying to stay afloat. If you’ve ever felt crushed by the pressure to “do it right,” cried over a bottle, or wondered when it’s okay to stop, this episode will make you feel seen, supported, and a little less alone. Because the truth is simple: a fed baby and a cared-for mom are what really matter. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.This episode of After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/FEELINGS. Our listeners get 10% off their first month!Try ZipRecruiter for FREE at ZIPRECRUITER.COM/FEELINGS!Explore the new Peloton Cross Training Tread+ at onepeloton.com.Go to HIYAHEALTH.COM/BLF for 50% off of your first order of Hiya Health children's multivitamin!Get 25% off of your first month at ritual.com/FEELINGS.Head to timeline.com/biglittlefeelings for 20% off Mitopure gummies! Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Most parents spend years worrying about the wrong things. And meanwhile, they miss the dangers that really matter. Today’s guest is Dr. Beachgem, a pediatric ER doctor and mom of four, who has seen firsthand what actually lands kids in the hospital. In this episode, she reveals the 3 things she would never let her own children do, the fears we need to release, and the surprising truths she wishes she’d known as a brand-new mom. You’ll walk away with clarity on what really keeps kids safe, freedom from the fears that don’t serve you, and a brand-new perspective on parenting that could change your family forever.Dr. Meghan Martin, known online as Dr. Beachgem10, is a board-certified pediatric emergency medicine physician, mom of four, and a trusted voice in family health education. She began creating content on TikTok during the COVID-19 pandemic to help parents navigate medical information in a clear, compassionate, and accessible way.With nearly 7 million followers across platforms, Dr. Martin actively practices in pediatric emergency care, treating critically ill and injured children. Whether she’s in the ER, sharing disaster preparedness tips or kids summer safety tips, juggling life with kids and her cats, Dr. Martin leads with authenticity and heart. She’s a doctor, wife, and mom—committed to helping families feel informed, empowered, and seen.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Visit www.expressable.com/BEDTIME to find the perfect speech therapist and get started on your child's communication journey.Visit nunababy.com to learn more or visit your local Nordstrom to test out the gear. Go to harbor.co/BLF and use code BLF for $50 off and experience the security every parent deserves. Try ZipRecruiter for FREE at ZIPRECRUITER.COM/FEELINGS! Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You’re carrying it all - the school forms, the meals, the birthdays, the appointments - all living inside your head while everyone else just… shows up? That’s the invisible mental load. And right now, despite having a 50/50 partnership style home, the mental load has fallen back on me (Kristin), again. But here’s the thing: this isn’t a story about blame. This is a story about change. About refusing to drown, and about building a system that actually works for everyone.In this solo episode, I share the science behind why the mental load tends to always fall on moms, how it crushes so many marriages, and the moment I realized I couldn’t keep going this way. Plus, 4 steps I’m taking right now to reclaim balance and rebuild true partnership in my home. You’ll walk away with the exact script, the reset ritual, and a step-by-step plan you can use tonight to get the load off of you, and start sharing tasks. This isn’t just about surviving the mental load, it’s about finally taking back control, one week at a time.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Visit www.expressable.com/BEDTIME to find the perfect speech therapist and get started on your child's communication journey.Visit www.functionhealth.com/feelings or use gift code FEELINGS100 at sign-up to own your health. The first 1000 to join using our link get a $100 credit toward their membership.Visit perelelhealth.com. New customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with the code BEDTIME.Try ZipRecruiter for FREE at ZIPRECRUITER.COM/FEELINGS!Head to WAYFAIR.COM right now to shop all things home. Wayfair. Every style. Every home. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Parenting is hard. Parenting with ADHD, autism, and three kids? That’s hard mode. In this raw, unfiltered episode, Kristin (ADHD) and her husband Tyler (autism) share the messy, hilarious, beautiful, and deeply human truth of raising kids in a neurodivergent household. From autistic meltdowns to ADHD crashes, from marriage clashes to parenting a recently diagnosed autistic child, they reveal the stories they’ve never told before.You’ll learn:The science behind autistic meltdowns and ADHD crashes (and why they’re so misunderstood)How to build a family that works for your wiring, not the world’s rulesHow celebrating their child’s neurodiversity unlocked compassion and celebration for their own neurodivergent wiringWhy neurodivergent families don’t need to ‘fix’ themselves - they need to design differentlyHow neurodivergent families aren’t broken, they’re rewriting the rules of parentingEqual parts funny and vulnerable, this episode will leave you feeling seen, hopeful, and empowered to parent differently, because your wiring isn’t a flaw, it’s your family’s superpower.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Go to HIYAHEALTH.COM/BLF for 50% off of your first order of Hiya Health children's multivitamin!Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to NUTRAFOL.COM and enter the promo code FEELINGS.Go to BONCHARGE.COM and use coupon code BLF to save 15%!Head to meritbeauty.com and get their Signature Makeup Bag FREE with your first order!Visit Quince.com/BLF for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a candid discussion, actor Lake Bell shares her journey through the unexpected challenges of motherhood, especially while navigating her daughter's medical issues. She discusses the emotional toll of co-parenting post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of choosing peace over resentment. Lake reflects on how motherhood unveils one's true self and celebrates the beauty of neurodiversity in her family. Her unfiltered insights reveal resilience and the transformative power of starting over, crafting a new narrative when life gets complicated.

Parenting doesn’t just test your patience, it tests your marriage. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kristin and Tyler pull back the curtain on what it really looks like to raise kids, navigate a neurodivergent household, and still fight to stay connected as partners. They share the three shifts that have truly transformed their relationship, from continually , to choosing laughter in the hardest moments.And they don’t stop there. They get honest about the two biggest things they are actively working on every single day - because in the messy, chaotic middle, it takes *work* to keep a marriage from crumbling. If you’ve ever thought, “Are we the only ones struggling?” - you’re not. This episode is proof that repair matters more than perfect, and that even in the chaos, love can grow deeper when you do the work together.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Go to HIYAHEALTH.COM/BLF for 50% off of your first order of Hiya Health children's multivitamin!Go to BONCHARGE.COM and use coupon code BLF to save 15%!LMNT is offering a free 8-count Sample Pack of their most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/BEDTIME to get yours!Visit www.functionhealth.com/feelings or use gift code FEELINGS100 at sign-up to own your health. The first 1000 to join using our link get a $100 credit toward their membership. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a candid discussion, they reveal that 91% of women struggle with body image, especially during motherhood. Humor and honesty are key as they tackle the emotional rollercoaster of pregnancy and postpartum experiences. They highlight the damaging effects of societal beauty standards and social media on body perception. Practical advice on fostering body gratitude and neutrality is passionately shared, along with strategies to raise children who embrace their bodies. The message is clear: your body is a home, not a problem.

Delve into the heartfelt journeys of late-diagnosed autistic parents as they share personal experiences and challenges. Discover the complexities of neurodiversity and the importance of self-acceptance. They candidly discuss decision-making pressures and sensory sensitivities while navigating parenting. Explore imaginative coping mechanisms from childhood and the dynamics of social interactions. With an emphasis on empathy and clear communication, they share strategies for managing emotions, reminding listeners that being different is something to embrace.

This week, The Wall Street Journal declared the death of gentle parenting and the rise of “F*ck Around and Find Out” discipline. One mom proudly threw her teenager, fully clothed, into a pond for spraying her with a water gun. Another claimed, “My kid is tougher than yours.” The internet is eating it up. Gentle parenting is getting dragged. FAFO parenting is trending. And if you’re a parent in 2025? You’re probably wondering:
What actually works?In this episode, we cut through the noise with the science. You’ll learn:• What the WSJ article got right - and what it missed• The truth about authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative parenting• Why fear-based parenting shuts down your child’s brain• How to raise resilient, emotionally healthy kids without swinging to extremesNo hot takes. No TikTok drama. Just decades of research turned into real-life parenting you can actually do that builds better behavior and long term resilience.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Get 40% off your first order of Sundays by going to sundaysfordogs.com/BLF or use code BLF at checkout.Visit Quince.com/BLF for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Visit fromourplace.com/BLF and use code BLF for 10% off sitewide!LMNT is offering a free 8-count Sample Pack of their most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/BEDTIME to get yours!Get an additional 15% off a Fatty15 90-Day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/BLF and using code BLF at checkout.Get 25% off of your first month at ritual.com/FEELINGS. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.