
After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings
Real talk? Modern parenting is a doozy. There’s never been more pressure to be perfect with social media readily at our fingertips - mixed with total isolation and no help. Where the f*ck is that village everyone talks about? Consider After Bedtime your village. Led by Kristin and Deena - founders of the largest online parenting community, Big Little Feelings - After Bedtime is the place you can go at the end of a long hard day to find your “enough”-ness. We’ll laugh, we’ll cry, we’ll maybe pee our pants a little as we unpack things we’re ALL experiencing but too ashamed to talk about: imperfect marriages, miscarriages, managing toddler mania, apologizing to our kids and everything in between. You’ll leave with actionable, realistic tips to make this whole parenting thing smoother - small changes, big impact. In an age where parents need more *real* connection than ever, let’s talk honestly about the hard - and remind ourselves we are not alone, we are not failing. In fact, we’re f*cking crushing it.
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Mar 20, 2024 • 43min
Stop Yelling: 5 Neuroscience-Backed Tips that will Transform Your Parenting
Learn how to break the cycle of yelling and guilt in parenting with neuroscience-backed tips on managing triggers. Discover how to retrain your brain's stress response, implement practical coping tools, and model emotional regulation for your children. Embrace personalized self-care, stay within stress tolerance levels, and repair relationships with sincere apologies. Promote self-awareness, healthy interactions, and effective stress management in parenting.

Mar 13, 2024 • 37min
Where Lorelai Gilmore Went Wrong & Other Hot Takes on TV Parents
We’re unpacking the very *best* and the very *worst* TV parents—from Mom Tiger to Lorelai Gilmore to Logan Roy, and everyyyyone in between. Join us, along with VP hype squad aka Kristin’s husband Tyler for an episode that is *sheer fun*, includes TONS of nostalgia, and also happens to be full of SUPER valuable nuggets of ACTUAL parenting wisdom. Highlights include:
Lorelai Gilmore: national treasure OR in a super unhealthy codependent relationship with her kid?!
Who is the most universally loved TV dad, and is his parenting style admirable OR just completely unattainable?
Why TV moms *still* don’t get enough credit (BOO.)
Insight from an actual therapist on what *exactly* makes Logan Roy one of the WORST parents in TV history
Home Alone: Fun family flick or the start of years of therapy for Kevin McAllister?
PLUS a super helpful listener Q-and-A where we tell you how to handle your toddler’s screaming when it feels SUPER triggering
AND the EXACT, best way to get your kid to transition or leave the park when it’s time to go, including one of our favorite hacks to help you avoid a power struggle in the first place
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Mar 6, 2024 • 34min
Say GOODBYE To Pushback: The 3 Hacks That Will Change Your Life as a Parent
Learn 3 simple hacks to end power struggles with kids, backed by neuroscience. Shift kids from pushback to collaboration mode. Lay a healthy foundation for future relationships. Bonus hack for life-changing impact. Improve communication and foster firm kindness in parenting.

Feb 28, 2024 • 32min
End Screentime Battles TODAY: 3 Easy Steps That Will Stop Power Struggles for Good
Struggling with endless battles over screentime? Not sure how to navigate the whole sharing thing? Going through some serious parent burnout? Then this episode is for YOU. Back by popular demand, today’s episode answers more of YOUR burning parenting questions! If you have a toddler or preschooler in your life, trust us, you’ve had to deal with allllllll of these issues we’re getting into today. This episode is for all of us and we PROMISE that the hacks that we share will make your life a million times easier. On this episode we cover:
Ending the cycle of screentime battles FOR GOOD, starting TODAY
Hot tips to make the concept of sharing click for your kid
The *specific techniques* to teach your toddler NOW to set them up with REAL sharing skills for their whole life
Mantras to ground yourself during the most chaotic moments
The parenting technique for you and your partner that will TOTALLY change your life, make you a better parent, AND prevent burnout before it starts
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Feb 21, 2024 • 40min
Mom Trends: What’s Hot, What’s Not and What Is Crazy AF
If you want to laugh so hard you pee your pants a little (us too) - this episode just might be our funniest yet. Kristin, Deena, and Kristin’s husband, Tyler, aka VP Hype Squad unpack the craziest, best mom trends that we’re all obsessed with. (Plot twist: Tyler is way more up on what’s *in* with millennial moms than Deena is.) Whether you’re a total trend b*tch (Kristin) or couldn't care less about following the latest craze (Deena), this episode is SO fun, will having you laughing out loud, *and* will make sure you can keep up at preschool pickup (if you’re into that kind of thing). We unpack:
HOT takes from a man on mom trends from Y2K sunglasses to micro dosing on mushrooms
The upcoming mom approved 2024 trends you definitely don't want to miss
What trend took three months for Kristin to work up the courage to wear in public?!
A spicy round of “eff, marry, kill” featuring some of our favorite husbands from across the Housewives franchise
PLUS a super helpful toddler Q and A where we tell you EXACTLY how to react when your toddler says “I hate you”
AND our magical, totally lifesaving ‘poop chocolates’ recipe for when your kid is constipated
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Feb 14, 2024 • 41min
If Your Parenting Feels Gentle, You’re Doing it Wrong: The Secret to Raising Emotionally Resilient Kids
Learn how labeling feelings empowers kids to be emotionally resilient. Discover techniques to handle big emotions, develop emotional intelligence early on, and raise strong kids. Dive into the importance of setting boundaries while acknowledging feelings, with a special guest sharing insights on suppressing emotions. Explore creating safe spaces for emotional expression and the balance between firm boundaries and nurturing emotional competence in parenting.

Feb 7, 2024 • 39min
Family Planning: The Best Age Gap and Optimal Number of Kids!
On today’s episode we dive into something that SO many of us agonize over once we become parents. We’re talking about optimal age gaps, how many kids is the “right” amount of kids to have, and everyyyything that goes into making those decisions. On this episode we cover:
How many kids is the ideal number of kids to have?
The ideal age gap: What the *actual research* says in terms of child developmental outcomes AND parental happiness
How to deal when fertility struggles impacts your age gap/number of kids plans
Two under two: Setting your kids up to be lifelong best friends or a recipe for TOTAL CHAOS?
BUSTING the myths about only children
Concrete questions to ask yourself to to figure out what is best for YOUR family
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Jan 31, 2024 • 31min
Q&A Episode 4: SUPER EASY Toddler Dinners + Hacks for Taking Your Kids Out to Eat!
Back by popular demand, today’s episode answers YOUR burning parenting questions! From parenting to the personal, join us as we get REAL and dig in on the rollercoaster that is raising toddlers. On this episode we cover:
Helpful hacks for taking your kids out in public—and not having it be a total disaster
Is handing your kid an iPad at a restaurant really going to ruin them?
Go-to dinner ideas for when you’re TOTALLY drained
Tips backed in neuroscience to help your kid regain confidence and make them feel safe after something scary happens
Tools to teach your toddler NOW to set them up to handle hard moments throughout their whole life
PLUS: Deena and her husband have started couples therapy—how is it going?!?
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Jan 24, 2024 • 28min
Deena's Endometriosis Update: Navigating Pain and Planning Ahead
Today’s episode is a bestie catchup where Deena gives us the latest updates on her endometriosis journey. Join us as we catch up on how she’s doing after her endometriosis surgery and how she’s coming to terms with her *other* diagnoses. Highlights include:
How her surgery failed from relieving her symptoms
Dispatches from a less-than-positive post-op appointment
What exactly is adenomyosis—and why does it leave some women suffering all the way until menopause?
Will this *triple whammy* diagnosis affect her fertility?
The “bad” news that is actually bringing her a TON of hope
Will the thought of MORE painful periods be enough to make Deena move up her plans to get pregnant again?
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Jan 17, 2024 • 1h 1min
Special Guest Emily Oster: How to Cut Through Parent Guilt and Get Down to What Actually Matters
Emily Oster, a Professor of Economics and parenting expert, advises on navigating parenting guilt and making informed decisions based on data. Topics include setting children up for success, screen time limits, effective discipline, and the impact of summer birthdays on kindergarten readiness.