We all had bad parenting in some way—but now what? No parent is perfect, and childhood wounds don’t just disappear when we grow up. Whether you struggled with criticism, emotional neglect, control, or a lack of support, those experiences shape your self-worth, relationships, and faith. In this episode, Catholic psychologist Dr. Greg Bottaro explains how faith and psychology help rewire false beliefs, break destructive patterns, and heal childhood wounds. Key Topics: How bad parenting affects adult relationships & self-worth. The difference between healing and “just forgiving”. How to honor parents while setting healthy boundaries. Rewiring false beliefs about your identity through faith. How to break the cycle and parent differently.   Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 03:21 – How bad parenting impacts children’s sense of identity 07:00 – Breaking the cycle: Understanding toxic family patterns 11:55 – How faith rewires false beliefs about your identity 13:44 – Learning self-stewardship and true self-care 17:12 – Correcting distortions of value learned from bad parenting 18:47 – Final encouragement to self-stewardship   Learn More: Episode 215: When Are Parents Toxic? with Noelle Mering Catholic Mindfulness Program – Dr. Greg Bottaro’s mindfulness approach integrating Catholic faith and psychology. Need support navigating a difficult family relationship? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation.   Follow Us on Socials:  Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

Noelle Mering, a Catholic theologian and author, joins Dr. Greg Bottaro to delve into the complexities of toxic family relationships. They discuss how to honor parents while establishing healthy boundaries, raising questions about the implications of the 'No Contact' movement. The conversation tackles the psychological impacts of family dynamics, the necessity of forgiveness without enabling harm, and the balance between cultural pressures and faith. They explore the path to healing amidst familial conflict, blending faith with psychological insight.

Feeling overwhelmed by endless scrolling? Discover how a faith-based digital detox can help you reclaim peace of mind. In today's hyperconnected world, our minds are constantly bombarded by notifications, newsfeeds, and endless scrolling. But is social media helping us—or hurting us? Dr. Greg Bottaro sits down with Darrell Miller of MAX Studios to explore the mental, emotional, and spiritual effects of digital overload. Together, they discuss why social media fuels anxiety and comparison, and how faith-based mindfulness can help us unplug and reconnect with real life. Key Topics: The hidden mental health costs of digital overload How dopamine addiction keeps us glued to our screens Why social media fuels anxiety, comparison, and loneliness How faith & mindfulness offer a Catholic alternative to secular digital detox trends Practical steps to set healthier tech boundaries—without missing out Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome & Introduction 07:30 – How Social Media Affects Mental Health 12:48 – Faith & Mental Well-being 14:25 - Helping Children with Anxiety 21:30 – Social Media Causing Loneliness 35:50 – A Catholic Digital Detox Plan Learn More: MAX Studios at the University of St. Thomas, Houston, creating innovative digital content. Duc In Altum Schools – Supporting Catholic educators and fostering faith-based education. The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt – A book exploring the impact of social media and digital culture on mental health. Bad Therapy by Abigail Shrier – A book examining modern therapy trends and their effects on mental well-being. The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk – A book on trauma, stress, and how the body holds psychological distress. Catholic Mindfulness Program – Dr. Greg Bottaro’s mindfulness approach integrating Catholic faith and psychology. The Church and the Internet  – Vatican document on the internet and technology use. Follow Us on Socials: Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

Think faith and mental health don’t mix? Think again. In an interview with Oscar Rivera on Ave Spotlight, Dr. Greg breaks down the biggest myths about psychology and Catholicism. Are faith and psychology at odds? Where do we draw the line between normal emotions and real mental health struggles?  Can prayer cure anxiety? Is therapy un-Catholic? How do you beat seasonal depression? Tune in for a fresh perspective on faith and mental well-being! Discussed in this episode: The surprising connection between faith and mental health; Why Catholicism and psychology are not at odds; How the Catholic Church has studied the human person for centuries; Why anxiety and depression don’t mean you lack faith; How Jesus, Mary, and the saints experienced human emotions; The biggest myths about mental health in the Catholic community; When to seek professional mental health support; How to tell if you’ve crossed a threshold into needing professional help; Practical steps to combat seasonal depression; The power of relationships and community in mental well-being; How prayer and gratitude affect mental well-being; How the CatholicPsych Institute is changing the mental health conversation; A personal story of Dr. Greg’s first encounter with Jesus; Encouragement for anyone struggling with mental health today. Resources mentioned or relevant:  Listen to more episodes of Ave Spotlight with Oscar Rivera Follow Ave Maria Press & Oscar on Social Media: @AveMariaPress @OscarTwoten Need help? Schedule a free consultation to to explore how working with a Mentor can help you move forward;  Feeling called to help others? Learn more about our Certification program (CPMAP): CatholicPsych Model of Applied Personalism; Sign up for our weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available; Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, courses, prayer resources, and more; Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Follow:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicPsych  Instagram: @catholicpsych  X: @CatholicPsych Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you! Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your spiritual life—doing all the right things but still not feeling closer to God—this episode is for you. Dr. Greg explores the layers of distraction that keep us from deeper prayer, and how to quiet the noise of our own narratives and hear God's voice in the stillness.  Discussed in this episode: Why doing all the right things in your spiritual life doesn’t always lead to feeling closer to God; How interior noise and distraction can block us from hearing God's voice; Understanding the layers of inner narratives that shape your perception of God; Why silence in prayer can feel uncomfortable—and how to move through it; The role of self-awareness in spiritual growth; St. John Paul II’s concept of “incommunicability” and what it means for your interior life; How to discern between your own thoughts and God’s voice; How God speaks in ways we don’t expect—and how to recognize His presence; The importance of patience in deepening prayer and overcoming distractions; How to redirect thoughts that pull you away from prayer; What to do when God’s only response seems to be silence; How past wounds and false narratives can affect your ability to hear God; Practical ways to apply Catholic mindfulness in your daily spiritual practice. Resources mentioned or relevant:  Learn more about Catholic daily accompaniment: Integrated Daily Dialogic Mentorship; Grow in self-awareness and freedom through the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat; Once you clear away the noise and listen to God's voice in the silence, learn how to how to understand what God is saying to you through the Discernment of Spirits; Need help? Schedule a free consultation to to explore how working with a Mentor can help you move forward;  Feeling called to help others? Learn more about our Certification program (CPMAP): CatholicPsych Model of Applied Personalism; Sign up for our weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available; Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, courses, prayer resources, and more; Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Follow:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicPsych  Instagram: @catholicpsych  X: @CatholicPsych Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you! Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!

Growth isn't just about hard work or going solo; it’s a blend of trusting God and personal effort. Discover how to break through stagnation by embracing the journey with humility and a readiness to learn from mistakes. The discussion emphasizes the dangers of self-reliance, advocating for a balance that encourages spiritual dependence. Starting from your current situation is key, and dreaming big while aligning with a greater purpose fuels true transformation. Real growth is a dynamic process of continual conversion.

Explore the sneaky blind spots that hinder your personal growth, as shared through relatable stories and tough truths. Discover how defense mechanisms can protect you but also limit your potential. Uncover the value of outside perspectives, like mentors, to boost self-awareness. Embrace the beginner's mind to approach challenges with humility. Learn why seeking help proactively is vital for continuous development. Growth is a lifelong journey towards freedom and fulfillment—are you ready to take the leap?

In this engaging discussion, Nick Clune, a CPMAP graduate and founder of a men's ministry, shares his mission to help men overcome addiction and cultivate authentic relationships. He dives into the crisis of masculinity and the deep need for fatherly guidance in shaping true identity. Nick reveals how societal pressures lead many men astray and highlights the importance of compassion over discipline in breaking the shame cycle. With insights from his personal journey and his podcast, "Hey Brother," he advocates for building genuine connections among men.

Kickstart your year with a focus on renewal instead of resolutions. Explore powerful self-reflection techniques to unlock hidden patterns in your unconscious. Discover how accessing deeper self-awareness can enhance your spiritual growth. Find out how intentionality can shape your personal development journey. Learn about a simple exercise to tap into wisdom from your future self. Plus, get insights on viewing purgatory from a new perspective and leveraging psychological tools for transformation.

Are you truly dreaming big enough? Explore how childhood aspirations are often suppressed by societal norms. Discover the connection between your psychological, spiritual, and physiological growth. Learn the art of 'failing forward' and how your unconscious thoughts shape your reality. Gain practical insights into challenging unhelpful mental narratives and cultivating awareness for intentional living. Most importantly, uncover the unique greatness only you can offer the world!