Episode 259: Stop Preventing the Saints From Doing their Job! The Psychology of Devotion with Dr. Gerard McNicholas

Dec 30, 2025

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The saints aren't waiting to be admired — they're actively trying to help us right now. In this episode, Dr. Greg sits down with Dr. Gerard McNicholas to unpack the psychology of devotion, what a living relationship with the saints can look like, and why the "messiness" that sometimes shows up during consecrations may actually be where God is doing His most personal work.

Key Topics:

Why Dr. Greg says most of us "block" the saints.
How devotion becomes a real relationship instead of just a pious habit.
When consecrations stir up drama—and why that can be a good sign.
The psychology behind spiritual "trends" and jumping into devotions too fast.
How scrupulosity and the "tyranny of the shoulds" hijack your prayer life.
Why St. Joseph and Our Lady want to be part of your daily life.
A simple four-step way to ride out anxiety and spiritual desolation.
How friendship and Ignatian wisdom keep you from panicking in hard seasons.
Why letting the saints "do their job" can change how you suffer.

Learn More:

Being Human Ep. #56: Writing Your Story with God with Dr. Gerard McNicholas
"When Coping Mechanisms Aren't Enough" – Dr. Gerard McNicholas' interview on The Catholic Sinner Show
Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat – An 8-week journey into peace, trust, and deeper relationship with God
The Surrender Novena by Fr. Dolindo Ruotolo – A devotion rooted in surrendering control and trusting Jesus more fully.
Hope and Help for Your Nerves — Dr. Claire Weekes' classic guide on anxiety, panic, and nervous suffering
Summit of Integration – Be the first to hear about event updates and special offers
Consecration to Jesus through Joseph by Dr. Greg Bottaro and Jen Settle – A deep dive into devotion, psychology, and relationship through the Holy Family
Consecration to St. Joseph – Fr. Donald Calloway's guide to rediscovering the fatherhood and mission of Joseph
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