Intentional Fatherhood
Brook Mosser, Justin Whitmel Earley
Welcome to the Intentional Fatherhood Podcast with Brook Mosser and Justin Whitmel Earley. Fatherhood is anything but simple. It lives at the intersection of many roles — husband, disciple of Jesus, provider, embodied soul, and more. And the weight of these responsibilities (and the expectations that come with them) can feel overwhelming. That’s why we’re here: to offer a clear biblical framework and practical habits to help you live with clarity, purpose, and intention in every aspect of your calling as a father. Season one is built around eight core tensions we feel in fatherhood. Each episode zooms in on one of those tensions, offering insight, encouragement, and doable habits you can put into practice right away. Follow along as we echo Joshua’s cry in Joshua 24:15, “But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
Episodes
Mentioned books
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Jan 20, 2026 • 49min
Conversation w/ Ronald Rolheiser: Restlessness, Giving Your Death Away, Dealing With Anger + the Power of Fidelity
In this conversation, Fr. Ronald Rolheiser, a renowned Catholic priest and theologian, shares profound insights on life's struggles and spiritual journeys. He explores the concept of restlessness as a calling and the idea that our daily responsibilities can serve as spiritual reminders. Discussing his book, *Domestic Monastery*, he highlights how parenting is a transformative process for both children and parents. Rolheiser also reflects on aging, facing cancer, and the art of surrendering with purpose, urging fidelity in our commitments as we navigate life's challenges.
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Jan 6, 2026 • 1h 8min
S2E8 - Lets talk about SEX! Reclaiming Intimacy Without Shame
This discussion dives into the often-avoided topic of sex in marriage, emphasizing its theological significance and role as God's gift. It highlights six types of intimacy crucial for connection and encourages ongoing, open conversations between fathers and their children about sex. Viewing sex as a sacrament reveals its spiritual impact, while practical advice focuses on treating it as a practice rather than performance. The hosts stress the importance of mutual enjoyment, communication, and addressing mismatched desires for a healthier marital dynamic.
Dec 16, 2025 • 44min
S2E7 - BONUS Interview w/ Ruslan KD: Godly Ambition, Shame Around Pursuing Work + Communicating Seasons of Busyness
Ruslan KD, a YouTuber, musician, and author, dives into his journey from a chaotic childhood to becoming a father and a faith-driven creator. He discusses his book, Godly Ambition, shedding light on the balance between ambition and godliness. Ruslan challenges the stigma around seeking success, emphasizing that true ambition serves rather than self-promotes. He advocates for open family communication during busy times and offers practical tips like replacing meetings with meaningful meals. His insights redefine masculinity by incorporating vulnerability and presence in parenting.
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Nov 11, 2025 • 1h 6min
S2E6: Praying Legacy, Practicing Initiation, Passing on Wisdom + The Little Things Are the Big Things
Explore the true essence of legacy and how it’s about sowing wisdom into future generations. Discover the power of prayer in shaping our children's lives and the importance of initiation rituals. Learn practical ways to pass down traditions and life skills, from writing heartfelt letters to creating keepsakes for milestones. Delve into how small daily practices can build a strong foundation and shape character. Ultimately, find hope in the meaningful legacy we create through love, sacrifice, and faith.
Nov 4, 2025 • 1h 2min
S2E5: Giving Your Death Away, Living in Light of Your Mortality + Moving From Fluid to Crystalized Intelligence
This engaging discussion delves into the powerful concept of memento mori, urging listeners to embrace their mortality as a means to deepen family legacies. The hosts explore the shift from fluid to crystallized intelligence, encouraging wisdom over mere skills as we age. They emphasize the importance of blessing others through genuine connection and mentorship, and outline practical ways to impart values and vision to the next generation. With deep reflections on humility, commitment, and the transformative nature of blessings, the conversation inspires listeners to live meaningfully.
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Oct 28, 2025 • 1h 15min
S2E4: From Shame to Strength, Anger in Fatherhood + Practices for Giving Your Life Away
Explore the transformative power of self-emptying in fatherhood through spiritual, physical, and joy-filled practices. Discover how to cultivate daily prayer and gratitude, even in a busy life, while embracing exercise as a pathway from shame to strength. The conversation highlights the importance of processing anger and balancing fasting with joyful feasting as acts of resistance. Plus, learn the significance of dating your spouse and sharing joyful meals with friends, all aimed at fostering deeper connections and a life lived open-handedly.
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Oct 21, 2025 • 57min
S2E3: Struggling to Give Your Life Away, the Barriers That Get In the Way + Sanctification Through Suffering
This discussion delves into the transformative journey of giving your life away after attaining personal stability. It emphasizes the home as a sacred space for growth and how marriage and parenting shape our character. The hosts tackle the pain of unmet dreams in adulthood and the necessity of embracing those feelings for true joy. They explore how suffering can either harden or soften us, urging listeners to view it as an opportunity for spiritual surrender. Ultimately, the conversation encourages balancing seriousness about faith with childlike wonder.
Oct 14, 2025 • 1h 5min
S2E2: Name it to Heal it, Getting It Together, Disordered Desire, and Real Change Takes Time
This discussion dives into the journey of personal growth and spiritual maturity, highlighting pivotal moments that shape identity. The hosts reflect on the power of naming one's experiences and how it fosters healing and clarity in parenting. They explore the intersection of marriage and sanctification, emphasizing how mentors can illuminate hidden callings. Practical steps for getting life together include prayer, community, and therapy, illustrating that real change takes time and care.
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Oct 7, 2025 • 1h 4min
S2E1: Getting Our Lives Together, Crucifying Desires, Being Called Up + A Life of Flourishing
Dive into the journey of fatherhood and spiritual maturity as hosts explore what it means to get our lives together. They tackle the transition from boyhood to manhood, emphasizing responsibility and integrity. Through the lens of Jesus' teachings, they discuss the need for surrender and the dangers of unchecked desires. The Family Age Chart offers insights into life's fleeting seasons and the call to navigate transitions. With personal stories of calling and discipline, they lay the groundwork for a flourishing life rooted in authenticity and growth.
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Sep 23, 2025 • 56min
S1E10 - BONUS Q&R: Substance Reliance, Phone Addiction Conflict, Failure in Spiritual Leadership, and Establishing Covenant Friendships Q+R
Explore the balance between substance use and healthy coping strategies, emphasizing honesty and accountability within marriages. Discover how to address phone addiction with empathy, fostering connections rather than conflict. Dive into the journey of deepening friendships through vulnerability, alongside practical tips for spiritual leadership at home. Challenge generational patterns in parenting, aiming for new legacies filled with grace and honesty. Each topic encourages listeners to cultivate a more intentional and connected family life.
