Intentional Fatherhood
Brook Mosser, Justin Whitmel Earley
Welcome to the Intentional Fatherhood Podcast with Brook Mosser and Justin Whitmel Earley. Fatherhood is anything but simple. It lives at the intersection of many roles — husband, disciple of Jesus, provider, embodied soul, and more. And the weight of these responsibilities (and the expectations that come with them) can feel overwhelming. That’s why we’re here: to offer a clear biblical framework and practical habits to help you live with clarity, purpose, and intention in every aspect of your calling as a father. Season one is built around eight core tensions we feel in fatherhood. Each episode zooms in on one of those tensions, offering insight, encouragement, and doable habits you can put into practice right away. Follow along as we echo Joshua’s cry in Joshua 24:15, “But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
Episodes
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Oct 28, 2025 • 1h 15min
S2E4: From Shame to Strength, Anger in Fatherhood + Practices for Giving Your Life Away
Explore the transformative power of self-emptying in fatherhood through spiritual, physical, and joy-filled practices. Discover how to cultivate daily prayer and gratitude, even in a busy life, while embracing exercise as a pathway from shame to strength. The conversation highlights the importance of processing anger and balancing fasting with joyful feasting as acts of resistance. Plus, learn the significance of dating your spouse and sharing joyful meals with friends, all aimed at fostering deeper connections and a life lived open-handedly.
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Oct 21, 2025 • 57min
S2E3: Struggling to Give Your Life Away, the Barriers That Get In the Way + Sanctification Through Suffering
This discussion delves into the transformative journey of giving your life away after attaining personal stability. It emphasizes the home as a sacred space for growth and how marriage and parenting shape our character. The hosts tackle the pain of unmet dreams in adulthood and the necessity of embracing those feelings for true joy. They explore how suffering can either harden or soften us, urging listeners to view it as an opportunity for spiritual surrender. Ultimately, the conversation encourages balancing seriousness about faith with childlike wonder.
Oct 14, 2025 • 1h 5min
S2E2: Name it to Heal it, Getting It Together, Disordered Desire, and Real Change Takes Time
This discussion dives into the journey of personal growth and spiritual maturity, highlighting pivotal moments that shape identity. The hosts reflect on the power of naming one's experiences and how it fosters healing and clarity in parenting. They explore the intersection of marriage and sanctification, emphasizing how mentors can illuminate hidden callings. Practical steps for getting life together include prayer, community, and therapy, illustrating that real change takes time and care.
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Oct 7, 2025 • 1h 4min
S2E1: Getting Our Lives Together, Crucifying Desires, Being Called Up + A Life of Flourishing
Dive into the journey of fatherhood and spiritual maturity as hosts explore what it means to get our lives together. They tackle the transition from boyhood to manhood, emphasizing responsibility and integrity. Through the lens of Jesus' teachings, they discuss the need for surrender and the dangers of unchecked desires. The Family Age Chart offers insights into life's fleeting seasons and the call to navigate transitions. With personal stories of calling and discipline, they lay the groundwork for a flourishing life rooted in authenticity and growth.
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Sep 23, 2025 • 56min
S1E10 - BONUS Q&R: Substance Reliance, Phone Addiction Conflict, Failure in Spiritual Leadership, and Establishing Covenant Friendships Q+R
Explore the balance between substance use and healthy coping strategies, emphasizing honesty and accountability within marriages. Discover how to address phone addiction with empathy, fostering connections rather than conflict. Dive into the journey of deepening friendships through vulnerability, alongside practical tips for spiritual leadership at home. Challenge generational patterns in parenting, aiming for new legacies filled with grace and honesty. Each topic encourages listeners to cultivate a more intentional and connected family life.
40 snips
Sep 9, 2025 • 59min
S1E9 - BONUS Q&R: The Secret Struggles of Fathers, Isolation, Secrecy, Confession, Authority with Love, and Balancing Work with Family
This discussion dives into the feelings of isolation many fathers face, especially when friends aren’t parents yet. The power of confession is highlighted as a means to foster community and healing. Strategies for balancing authority and love in parenting are shared, with insights on understanding kids' unique needs. The episode also tackles the challenges of work-life balance, emphasizing healthy boundaries and communication. It's an honest exploration of fatherhood that offers practical tools to navigate its complexities.
24 snips
Jul 29, 2025 • 53min
S1E8 - Finding Meaning, Art + Beauty in Fatherhood, You Were Created to Delight + Pursue Hobbies
In this engaging conversation, fathers are invited to explore the joy and meaning found in hobbies and artistic pursuits. Discover how personal passions can enhance family life and deepen connections with children. The discussion emphasizes balancing hobbies with parenting, showing that these activities can foster emotional well-being. Through anecdotes, the hosts share bonding moments and rituals that enrich their relationships. Ultimately, they highlight the importance of seeking divine guidance as fathers navigate the beautiful complexities of parenthood.
34 snips
Jul 22, 2025 • 43min
S1E7 - Made to Work, Sanctification Through Your Vocation + Staying Busy But Balanced
Explore the biblical view of work as a vital aspect of fatherhood and personal growth. Discover how the challenges of your job can lead to deep sanctification, transforming struggles into spiritual lessons. The conversation emphasizes the importance of finding meaningful work that aligns with your talents, passions, and community needs. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own vocations while navigating the balance between career demands and family life. Gain insights into staying busy yet balanced in today's fast-paced world.
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Jul 15, 2025 • 1h 13min
S1E6 - Marriage, Digital Hygiene, Discipline, Rhythms, and Dating Your Spouse
Tired of feeling reactive as a parent? Discover how simple, intentional habits can transform your family dynamics. Explore the power of bedtime rituals and affirmations to nurture spiritual growth. Hear insights on maintaining a resilient marriage, emphasizing love as an action. Learn about the necessity of regular date nights and empathy in parenting. Plus, delve into strategies for managing technology use, encouraging healthy digital habits, and promoting deeper connections in a tech-savvy world.
35 snips
Jul 8, 2025 • 1h 14min
S1E5 - Your Fatherhood Needs You to Know Your Story, Facing Generational Sin, Trusting God to Bless What’s Been Broken, and Practical Steps Toward Health
In a heartfelt discussion, the hosts emphasize the importance of understanding your family narrative to improve fatherhood. They confront generational sin and personal trauma, revealing how these histories shape relationships. One shares a painful story of healing from childhood chaos, while the other highlights the struggle to embrace inherited blessings. Together, they encourage listeners to break free from repeating past mistakes, emphasizing grace, introspection, and faith as paths to healing and transformation.
