

Men's ADHD Support Group
Marc Almodovar and Shane Thrapp
We are a nonprofit organization created to help men with ADHD find community and acceptance by raising awareness about Men's struggle with ADHD and mental health. We are here to provide access to experts, tools, and strategies so that men can learn how to thrive with ADHD. It's hosted by coach & speaker Marc Almodovar ( @wellnesswithmarc ), and Shane Thrapp, Life Coach and Business Consultant (Order_from_Ka0s), among other leaders of the Men's ADHD Support Organization; find out more information about us at www.mensadhdsupportgroup.org
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Sep 5, 2025 • 1h 18min
Friendship Skills For Neurodivergent Adults Featuring Caroline Maguire
Send us a textIn this episode of the Men's ADHD Support Group webinar series, join Shane Thrapp and our amazing guest as we discuss the challenge of making friends as adults with ADHD. Featuring Caroline Maguire, author and friendship expert, the discussion covers why forming meaningful relationships can be difficult and provides practical, easy-to-use solutions. Caroline shares her insights on adult friendships, the importance of authenticity, and the strategies for building and nurturing connections. We also touch on the concept of masking, the role of shared activities, and recognizing when someone is interested in being your friend. We had so much fun with this episode and Caroline provided valuable tools and techniques for creating lasting and genuine friendships.About CarolineCaroline Maguire, ACCG, PCC, M.Ed., is an award‑winning coach, teacher, and keynote speaker focused on social‑emotional learning, executive functioning, and friendship skills. She’s the author of Why Will No One Play With Me?—an award‑winning guide for kids and parents. Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Aug 29, 2025 • 1h 14min
The Unequal Load in ADHD Partnerships with Dusty Chipura
Send us a textNavigating relationships is already challenging—but when ADHD gets added to the mix, emotional labor, communication breakdowns, and resentment can quietly build up over time.In this session, we are joined by Dusty Chipura—Master-Certified ADHD Coach and doula—to explore the unequal domestic load in ADHD partnerships. Dusty shares insights on why "trying harder" doesn't always fix relationship struggles, the role of gender dynamics, how emotional labor shows up, and practical tools to build healthier, more equal partnerships.This event was hosted by the Men’s ADHD Support Group, a nonprofit dedicated to providing resources and community for men and masc-aligned individuals with ADHD.🔗 Learn more about Dusty Chipura: ➡️https://www.vancouveradhdcoaching.com/our-team/🎙️ Check out Dusty’s podcast, Translating ADHD: ➡️ https://www.translatingadhd.com/📚 Resources mentioned:Fair Play Method by Eve Rodsky: https://www.fairplaylife.com/Christina Crowe’s ADHD & Relationships Work: https://www.christinacrowe.ca/Melissa Orlov's ADHD Marriage Support: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Melissa-Orlov/author/B003NK0RGG Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Apr 13, 2025 • 1h 21min
ADHD & Sex with Cate Osborn AKA Catieosaurus
Send us a textSex and intimacy are already complex topics, but when you add ADHD into the mix, things get even trickier. Executive dysfunction, rejection sensitivity, sensory issues, and communication struggles can all play a role in how we experience intimacy and relationships.In this session, Shane Thrapp is joined by Cate Osborn (aka Catieosaurus)—certified sex educator, advocate, and author—to break down ADHD and its impact on sex, relationships, and intimacy. She shares insights on navigating mismatched libidos, sensory overwhelm, ethical non-monogamy, kink, and much more.This event was hosted by the Men’s ADHD Support Group, a nonprofit dedicated to providing resources and community for men and masc-aligned individuals with ADHD.📖 Check out Cate’s book, The ADHD Field Guide:➡️ https://catieosaurus.com/the-adhd-field-guide🔗 Explore more from Cate Osborn:➡️ https://catieosaurus.com/links📝 Yes/No/Maybe Couple’s Checklist by Sunny Megatron:➡️ https://sunnymegatron.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/YesNoMaybe-SunnyMegatron1.pdf❤️ Support the Men’s ADHD Support Group:Your donations help us continue providing free resources, support, and events like this one. If you’d like to contribute more, you can donate here:➡️ https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/donation-form/cate-osborn-adhd-and-sex-donations Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Mar 21, 2025 • 1h 15min
Lisa Rabinowitz - Communication and Relationships
Send us a textJoin Shane Thrapp of the Men's ADHD Support Group in a session with Lisa Rabinowitz, a certified Gottman Impact couples therapist. Lisa discusses the unique challenges faced by men with ADHD in relationships and offers strategies for better communication and understanding. With over 30 years of experience, she shares her insights on managing ADHD within couples, the importance of creating a dedicated communication space, and the significance of understanding each other's love languages. The session also covers how to deal with rejection sensitivity, the value of therapy, and tips for forming new relationships while being transparent about neurodiversity.You can also get an amazing freebie from Lisa by checking out this link: https://counselorforcouples.com/improve-communication/ 00:50 Meet Lisa Rabinowitz: Expert in ADHD and Relationships02:09 Personal Stories and Communication Challenges03:28 Understanding ADHD Communication Styles14:19 Creating Effective Communication Spaces21:35 Recognizing When to Seek Help22:03 Salvaging Relationships: Signs and Strategies29:48 Building New Relationships and Social Skills34:03 Funny Misunderstandings and Missed Cues35:07 Creating Safety and Security in Relationships38:24 Addressing Neurodivergence in Relationships42:07 Engaging in Effective Communication01:02:43 Navigating Love Languages and Neurodivergent Preferences01:07:00 Healing After a Relationship Ends01:09:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Feb 11, 2025 • 45min
Breaking the Stigma Around ADHD with Dr. Kojo Sarfo
Send us a textIn this episode of the Men’s ADHD Support Group podcast, Marc welcomes Dr. Kojo Sarfo, a renowned comedian, actor, content creator, and mental health advocate. They discuss Dr. Sarfo's journey in the ADHD community, his insights on neurodivergent relationships, and the importance of mental health among men. Dr. Sarfo shares his experiences, from publishing his self-help book to navigating social media as a mental health professional, and underscores the impact of mindset and community support on personal growth. Tune in to learn valuable tips for managing ADHD and championing men's mental health.To support Men’s mental health and the work that the Men’s ADHD Support Group does donate here! https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/donation-form/kojo-sarfoDr. Kojo’s Social Media's: Instagram: @drkojosarfoYoutube @drkojosarfoTiktok @dr.kojosarfo Facebook: @drkojosarfoSnapchat: @drkojosarfo00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:26 Meet Dr. Kojo Sarfo01:48 Dr. Kojo's Journey with ADHD05:09 Men's Mental Health and ADHD16:26 Navigating Neurodivergent Relationships27:49 Self-Care and Mental Health Tips36:49 Upcoming Events Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Nov 18, 2024 • 1h 18min
Alan P. Brown's 5 Mindset Shifts For More Doing and Less Stressing
Send us a textJoin our host Shane Thrapp, Operations Director for the Men's ADHD Support Group, and Alan P. Brown of ADDCrusher as they talk about effective strategies for managing ADHD. Alan shares his insights on focusing on practical and science-based approaches around productivity. They discuss topics such as energy management, the importance of mindset shifts, handling negative self-talk, and ways to stay motivated with mundane tasks. Additionally, they respond to audience questions on managing productivity, routines, and other ADHD-related challenges.If you're interested in seeing the slides and video for this show check it out on our Youtube channel! 01:20 The Power of Mindset Shifts03:03 Understanding Simple Mindset Shifts07:53 The Science Behind Gratitude14:15 Energy Management vs. Time Management18:03 Self-Care Over Self-Comfort21:16 Embracing a Growth Mindset25:37 Harnessing Anger for Change29:15 Future Self vs. Present Self38:09 The Power of Asking Questions38:49 Overcoming Negative Self-Talk40:37 Energy Management Strategies46:18 Prioritization and Time Management01:00:37 Saying No and Setting Boundaries01:06:37 Balancing Structure and Flexibility01:09:44 Pathological Demand Avoidance01:11:09 Staying Motivated with Mundane Tasks Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Nov 6, 2024 • 56min
ADHD Parenting Featuring Mike McLeod of GrowNow ADHD
Send us a textIn this episode of the Men's ADHD Support Group podcast, we are doing a cross-over event for the ADHD Parents Support Group! Our host Shane Thrapp talks with Michael McLeod, the founder of GrowNow ADHD Coaching and Co-Host of the ADHD Parenting Podcast featuring ADHD Dude Ryan Wexelblatt. They discuss Michael's journey into ADHD coaching, the importance of executive function skills for those with ADHD, effective treatments for ADHD, and the impact of screens on children with ADHD. They also delve into parenting strategies, balancing work and family life, and the benefits of outdoor play. Michael provides invaluable insights and practical advice for parents managing ADHD in their families. Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Oct 15, 2024 • 54min
William Curb of Hacking Your ADHD - Celebrating 200 Episodes!
Send us a textWelcome to the Men's ADHD Support Group Podcast! I’m Shane Thrapp, and today we’re joined by William Curb, host of Hacking Your ADHD, as he celebrates his 200th episode. We talk about how William started the podcast, the challenges of staying consistent with ADHD, and how podcasting helped him manage his own symptoms.We also cover common ADHD myths, like the stereotype of laziness, and how body doubling and other hacks can really make a difference. Plus, William shares his thoughts on the future of his show, including potential new projects.Check out Hacking Your ADHD on all platforms, and don’t miss out on our conversation! Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Jul 9, 2024 • 55min
ADHD, Dad’s and Divorce with David Pisarra Esq of Dad’s Law School
Send us a textShane Thrapp, Operations Director of the Men's ADHD Support Group, is joined by David Pisarra Esq., chief evangelist at Dad's Law School. In this episode we discuss the challenges and strategies for men, particularly those with ADHD, facing divorce and custody battles. David shares his extensive experience in family law and offers practical advice on navigating the legal system, the importance of therapy, and how to document parenting efforts. In this episode we work to emphasize the need for men to educate themselves, seek support, and improve their emotional regulation to achieve better outcomes for their families through these trying times that we may face.Talking Parents App - https://talkingparents.com/homeOur Family Wizard App - https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/00:00 Introduction to the Men's ADHD Support Group Podcast00:09 Meet David Pisarra: Advocate for Fathers in Family Court01:40 Challenges Men Face in Family Court04:34 David's Mission: Educating and Supporting Fathers06:21 Practical Advice for Fathers in Custody Battles07:58 The Importance of Evidence and Documentation17:23 Navigating Legal Rights and Custody Information26:50 The Role of Therapy and Emotional Support27:38 Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder28:39 Impact of Childhood Trauma on Relationships30:39 Differentiating ADHD and Borderline Personality Disorder32:26 Therapy's Role in Family Dynamics33:33 Personal Experience with Therapy35:28 Co-Parenting Strategies38:50 Deciding Between Staying in a Marriage or Divorce42:36 Emotional vs. Physical Abuse45:23 Men's Emotional Abuse and ADHD49:34 The Importance of Therapy for Men with ADHD50:55 Introduction to Dad's Law School53:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

Jun 18, 2024 • 1h 54min
Relationships and Communication - Dave O'Dwyer & Laura Seed
Send us a textIn this Men's ADHD Support Group podcast episode, David O'Dwyer, aka the Spiritual Gentleman, and his partner Laura Seed share their journey navigating relationships with ADHD. With host Shane Thrapp, they discuss essential strategies for managing ADHD within relationships, understanding emotional dysregulation, and building strong, supportive partnerships. Listen in for actionable tips, heartfelt advice, and insightful dialogue on fostering better communication and personal growth within romantic relationships.00:00 Understanding ADHD and Loneliness02:35 Personal Journey with ADHD06:03 Challenges and Growth in Relationships14:34 Managing ADHD in Relationships - Strategies25:52 Conflict Resolution and Self-Care12:39 Complementing Each Other34:28 Establishing Daily Routines00:19 Managing Time Blindness36:49 Audience Feedback and Questions38:38 Effective Communication with ADHD43:14 Handling Emotional Dysregulation52:05 Dealing with Uncooperative Partners56:50 Recognizing That Relationships End38:38 Understanding ADHD in Relationships01:28:28 Dating with ADHD: Tips and Strategies01:28:23 Final Thoughts and Advice Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn