Pure Desire Podcast

Nancy Pearcey, author and speaker on Christian apologetics, discusses toxic masculinity versus biblical masculinity, challenging stereotypes and emphasizing love and servant leadership. The chapter also explores the impact of pornography on young boys' views of masculinity and highlights the importance of men being engaged fathers.

Emotional awareness and emotional intelligence go hand-in-hand. But emotional intelligence can feel elusive. In today’s episode, Heather Kolb helps us understand how to grow in emotional intelligence and its importance in the recovery process.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Pure Desire Online GroupsFASTER Scale (Free Tool) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Many parents have a genuine desire to teach their kids how to navigate their sexuality in a way that is more helpful than they were taught. But most parents don’t even know where or how to begin talking with their kids about sex. This episode with Rodney and Traci Wright is packed with practical examples and advice, resources to protect kids and grow personally, and the encouragement parents have been looking for.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)How To Talk With Your Kids About SexDr. Clifford & Joyce Penner (Website)Defend Young Minds (Website)Space At The Table (Book)Good Pictures Bad Pictures (Book)Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr. (Book)Learn About Sex Series (Book Series)Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Pure Desire Online GroupsCulture Reframed (Website)Protect Young Eyes (Website) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Josh was no stranger to the limelight as a worship leader and musician. But being caught with pornography was a type of exposure that wasn't invited. Yet it was the beginning of a journey toward true healing and freedom that ultimately impacted his entire family. Josh and Shawna Putnam share their story of healing, what they learned along the way, and the new ministry that it is fueling for both of them.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Josh’s Music (Spotify)Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Pure Desire Online GroupsFASTER Scale (Free Tool)Recovery Tools: FASTER Scale (Pure Desire Podcast)Tools For Betrayal: FASTER Scale (Pure Desire Podcast) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Dr. Eddie Capparucci, a licensed professional counselor and author, discusses the transformative concept of reparenting the inner child. He delves into how childhood experiences shape adult behaviors and emotional health. The conversation emphasizes the power of nurturing the inner child to address unresolved trauma and build healthier relationships. Listeners explore the intersection of faith and psychology, the importance of community support in healing, and practical resources for emotional growth. Eddie's personal insights make this an engaging and thought-provoking discussion.

Our stories have incredible power. But why is that? What is it about sharing our stories that is so impactful? On today’s episode, we are joined by the founder of Stories Unveiled, Ashley Sears. Ashley helps us understand why stories are so powerful, how to find the courage to share them, and the healing stories carry for us all.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Stories Unveiled Conference (Ashley's Conference)Stories Unveiled Facebook PageStories Unveiled Instagram PageStories Of Healing: Asher & Ashley Sears (Podcast)Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Relationships are at the center of each part of our lives. And few things impact our relationships like unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma. In this episode, best-selling author, speaker, and professor, Dr. Les Parrott joins us with practical tools to create fulfillment in our relationships. We talk about trends in dating and marriage relationships, when and how to share our history with our partner, and how to improve communication around sex and everything else. RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Loveology.comSymbis Assessment (Marriage Resource)BetterLove.comCrazy About Sex (Les' Book)5 Love Languages (Gary Thomas' Book) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Churches and volunteers passionate about Pure Desire Groups face a number of challenges when starting out. Today, Rodney Wright joins us to share best practices from his experience launching and maintaining a thriving Pure Desire Groups ministry. From preaching tips to managing group members from other churches to navigating a leadership team that isn’t open to a “recovery ministry,” this episode has it all.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist—CSAT (IITAP Certification)Pastoral Sexual Addiction Professional—PSAP (IITAP Certification)Pure Desire Summit (Event) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

As new research emerges and becomes mainstream, it’s important that our approach remains current. This is the heart behind the recent update to our resource for women, Betrayal & Beyond. In this episode, Heather Kolb and Ashley Jameson share the “why” behind the update, they highlight the major changes (and what stayed the same), and who should go through this updated resource. RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Betrayal & Beyond Kit—including NEW video companion (Women's Betrayal Resource)Betrayal & Beyond Online GroupsAPSATS A Partner Sensitive Approach To Healing From Betrayal w/ Dr. Barbara Steffens (Podcast)Women's Takeover #1: Healing From Betrayal w/ Dr. Barbara SteffensUnraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Sexual Integrity 101 (Video Course)Connected (Marriage Resource)Group Leader Training (Video Course) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Pornography undermines every ministry in a local church. Sam Black, author of The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography And How To Fix It (GIVEAWAY IN SHOW NOTES), joins us to take an honest look at the harmful effects of ignoring unwanted sexual behavior in the church. This episode is packed with practical ways that churches can begin to meet the real need that exists within their congregations.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)FREE COPY of The Healing Church (First 50 get book for free)FREE Intro/Chapter 1 of The Healing ChurchCovenant Eyes (Accountability Software) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)