The Kevin Miller Podcast

I really appreciate taking a topic where we think we know what drives us, and discovering the motives are actually coming from somewhere else. It allows us to come into better alignment and realize more benefit. In this case, the concept is kindness. We think we should be kind because it’s the right thing to do. And if we’re kind, then others will reciprocate and be kind to us in return. It’s usually under the “should” category of life. We “should” be kind. Especially to those we perceive as not so kind. Be kind to the person who cut you off in traffic. Be kind to the surly person behind the coffee counter. Be kind to your spouse who seems grumpy to you. When I’m interviewed on other podcasts, I’m often asked who some of my favorite guests have been or the most profound topics. I often cite Shaunti Feldhahn. Shaunti is a social researcher and best-selling author who investigates life-changing truths about relationships. I first got to know her through her book, “The Kindness Challenge – Thirty Days To Improve Any Relationship.” In it she uncovers that whether we thrive depends far more on how we choose to treat others than on how we ourselves are treated. The path to our happy place starts with one choice: whether or not to be kind. Especially when we really don’t want to be. The punchline? Being kind benefits us far more than who we choose to be kind to. I had this conversation with Shaunti nearly seven years ago and here I am still talking about it today. As I keep bringing her message back up, I’m re-publishing our talk so you can hear Shaunti’s full research. Find her at shaunti.comGot a comment or question about an episode? Want to ask a question about your drive? Email me. I don’t want to just talk to you here, I want to talk with you. kmiller@kevinmiller.co.Sign up for a $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevinGo to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial.Sign up for AromaTru's Insider Club and today you'll receive a FREE Waterless Oil Diffuser and a FREE lemon eucalyptus oil - that's over $200 in savings. Head to aromatruorganics.com/kevin to take advantage of this exclusive offer.  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to Kajabi.com/kevinGet 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and enter code "KEVIN" at checkout.Go to Quince.com/drives for free shipping on your order and 365-day returnsGo to cozyearth.com/driven and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discountJoin thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Explore the fluid nature of identity and how we often confine ourselves to outdated labels. The conversation emphasizes embracing change and recognizing our ongoing evolution as individuals. Personal growth is not a destination but a continuous journey shaped by experiences. Practical resources for development and life insurance essentials are also shared. Plus, discover insights into ethical fashion and e-commerce solutions that prioritize sustainability, showcasing how conscious choices can elevate our lives and businesses.

Explore the battle between happiness and meaning as the podcast reveals our deeper desires for security and purpose. It highlights how films and societal stories shape our motivations. Discover the importance of personal narratives that drive fulfillment and belonging. Additionally, the conversation touches on ethical living choices in fashion and the critical role of life insurance for families. Join a community for richer discussions on these compelling topics.

Navigating the emotional conflict between personal growth and contentment can be challenging. The discussion dives into the joy of evolving while recognizing the need for inner peace. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their journey without the pressure of seeking validation. Personal narratives illustrate how stepping into the unknown can be transformative. Additionally, the importance of community support in fostering growth is highlighted, inviting everyone to engage in interactive discussions while pursuing their aspirations.

The conversation dives into the balance between pursuing goals and embracing personal growth as a life journey. The speakers reflect on how fulfillment often stems from daily aspirations rather than the final achievements. They discuss finding joy in life's challenges and the significance of a growth mindset. Insights on reimagining healthcare highlight the importance of curiosity and meaningful relationships in fostering personal development. Ultimately, the dialogue champions the richness of experiences over traditional goal-oriented pursuits.

John Ruhlin, an expert in gift giving and building memorable connections, discusses the profound impact of thoughtful gifts. He shares insights on how gift giving can express love and appreciation, significantly strengthening personal and professional relationships. Highlighting stories from his life, he emphasizes the importance of customization and intentionality in gifting. Ruhlin also advocates for transforming traditional business transactions into genuine connections through meaningful gifts, ultimately fostering loyalty and trust.

Explore how your daily work environment may be more crucial for job satisfaction than the products you help create. Dive into reflections on the cinematic influence of workplace context and personal experiences. Contrast personal values with industry expectations, highlighting the autonomy that fosters fulfillment. Discover insights into enhancing workflows and personal growth through supportive environments. Plus, engage with community perspectives on the importance of connection in the workplace. Let's rethink what truly drives our satisfaction at work!

Dr. Tessa West, a Professor of Psychology at New York University and author of "Job Therapy: Finding Work That Works For You," delves into the emotional ties we have with our jobs, likening it to a committed relationship. She critiques our outdated work mentality, reminiscent of the hunting and gathering lifestyle, and encourages a shift to view work as a fulfilling contribution to the world. Dr. West shares insights on aligning passions with profession, presenting anecdotes that illuminate how pursuing what lights us up can transform our work experience.

In this discussion, Dr. Tessa West, a Professor of Psychology at NYU and author of 'Job Therapy', draws intriguing parallels between work and marriage, highlighting both as vital to our identity and self-worth. She explores workplace relationships and their emotional complexities, emphasizing the importance of nurturing a positive work culture. Tessa also discusses the unseen stressors impacting happiness at work, the significance of personal motivations, and the need for self-assessment in achieving career satisfaction. Tune in for profound insights that could transform your professional life!

This conversation dives into the clash between personal desires and societal expectations. It encourages listeners to uncover what truly fulfills them, especially in relationships and career choices. Reflecting on spirituality and self-discovery, the speaker urges exploration beyond material wealth. With a backdrop of nature, the discussion highlights the value of authenticity, personal growth, and the freedom to pursue one's passions. It's about tuning into your own story and finding your essence amidst societal noise.